When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
my opinion: Everyone should have known that these folks would be considered more unhealthy - and therefore be able to get preference - so why didn't they tell fat folks to go on a diet so that they would be healthy enough to wait in the back of the line? Because the Fat Acceptance crowd is out of control and would have considered that "discrimination"!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The most at risk people are diabetics, old people, people with underlining medical conditions, respitory issues and weakened immune systems. From what I was told, those, aside from frontline health workers/fire/police, will be offered the elixir 1st.
my opinion: Everyone should have known that these folks would be considered more unhealthy - and therefore be able to get preference - so why didn't they tell fat folks to go on a diet so that they would be healthy enough to wait in the back of the line? Because the Fat Acceptance crowd is out of control and would have considered that "discrimination"!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Personally, I think it has made it easier (and cheaper) for people to feed themselves in a quick an easy manner. Sadly, it's not a healthy way and since we have the Internet and social media, less people are meeting others IRL. Kinda like living virtually in an online protected realm.
but guinea pigs normally are useless save for testing, so after they take the shots and survive without much issues, the rest of people can consider it feel save for use
my opinion: Everyone should have known that these folks would be considered more unhealthy - and therefore be able to get preference - so why didn't they tell fat folks to go on a diet so that they would be healthy enough to wait in the back of the line? Because the Fat Acceptance crowd is out of control and would have considered that "discrimination"!
Cheaper for you, maybe!
I didn’t know police were up there with healthcare workers. Someone can have mine. I won’t get the vaccine.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Goods in short supply for whatever reason - Price rises.
In the big cities, I am told they have the option for it. I believe NYPD has that option. For the record, I'm not going for the vaccine either. A vaccine normally takes years, possible a decade for trials and approval. This was done in 6 - 8 months.. I'll take my chances. I say an old lady the other day dressed like darth vader.. Mask, faceshield, face helmet guard and protective clothing. Jesus Christ.
I do not eat fast food. I usually cook every day or in advance. I think the last time I was at McDonalds, Burger King or Wendy's was in the 90's. Eggs cost me around 3 bucks a dozen. Even cheaper at Costco. You need to shop more competitively dude.
I don't eat much fast food, either. Hence I noticed the price of eggs.
I sit on top of a mountain watching peasants bring me my wine, meat, eggs and toilet paper. However, my toilet paper is made from only the finest quality wool or cashmere; infused with eucalyptus oil, lavender and tears from new born female babies. <---- This is all sarcasm by the way.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ebay It!
It will be interesting to see what incentives healthcare employers create. A dialysis nurse told me her employer is not making them get the shot, but if they do get vaccinated and then get covid, the employer pays them to stay home. Otherwise they have to use their own sick time.
Yep, the professional healthcare employer can’t legally require her to get it, and incentives get around that, but the employer obviously believes in the vaccines effectiveness if they’re putting their own sick time money behind it…
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
