"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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my former favourite movie

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That is an interesting thought about jenny symbolizing all women. Along those lines, it occurs to me that lieutenant dan losing his legs must symbolize the experience of the american military in vietnam.

Like i said on this thread years ago, the movie cuts out a lot of the story told by the book. Forrest is an idiot savant, like rainman. He is a chess genius and also a perfect physical specimen (tom hanks couldnt be everything). He as a character might symbolize all humanity in some sense. We can do great things without realizing how dumb we all collectively are.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That is an interesting thought about jenny symbolizing all women. Along those lines, it occurs to me that lieutenant dan losing his legs must symbolize the experience of the american military in vietnam.

Like i said on this thread years ago, the movie cuts out a lot of the story told by the book. Forrest is an idiot savant, like rainman. He is a chess genius and also a perfect physical specimen (tom hanks couldnt be everything). He as a character might symbolize all humanity in some sense. We can do great things without realizing how dumb we all collectively are.
I didn't know Forrest was intended by the book to be a perfect physical specimen. That would explain how he smoked them on the football field. Was it University of Georgia or Auburn?
 

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So the real Forrest was a physical stud with unrealistically high morals?
I don't know that the book really regarded him as having that high of morals. He was a pro wrestler called "the dunce." Yet nasa let him be an astronaut, because he was rainman good at math equations. When his spaceship crash lands on an island of cannibals, he has to beat the chief at chess every day, under penalty of being eaten if he loses. The book made a lot of the savant irony, the idiot who could do anything.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't know that the book really regarded him as having that high of morals. He was a pro wrestler called "the dunce." Yet nasa let him be an astronaut, because he was rainman good at math equations. When his spaceship crash lands on an island of cannibals, he has to beat the chief at chess every day, under penalty of being eaten if he loses. The book made a lot of the savant irony, the idiot who could do anything.
A rainman lol.
 

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Be rainman at getting pvssy.
A real rain maker at bedding hoes. So predictable and delectable. Mental Mastery is my forte, target bending them over cause I said so like a rainman in the game. Getting flushed and gushing while they in my presence. Always asking 'me what happened why do I feel this way?".. "Nothing ma, you just like me. '
 
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