backseatjuan
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Damn! That is hard core. She convinced you the kid is yours and she is virgin merry got pregnant from you by sleeping in the same bed and no penetration.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Just got played
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Serenity
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Unemotional, just do what you came there to do. Don't be a jerk, don't be nice, ignore anything not about the kid and remain neutral.
What is wrong with being nice?
Why does he need to ignore everything except his kid?
And what does it mean unemotional?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
He said they "broke up" 16 months ago, so the assumption is they were fvcking regularly and she shut that sh1t down. Perhaps the sex shutdown is in alignment with the kid, and often times this is very normal.
More doom for the gloom then.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Serenity
Moderator
She'll probably continue, but you shouldn't care about this.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Just curious, "who" was she fvcking?
I caught her ****ing some dude,dont know who.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So you caught her fvcking AFTER she had you sexless and would lay in the bed naked with you? How did you handle it?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yes. I thought we had something going on.
She wanted to make me coffe right after i caught them (?!). She said the guy was just a **** and "ABSOLUTELY nothing serious" "Strange i say this when he is laying 20 fot from here" she continued....They kept sneaking because of me the Said. They did not want me to know....
I wanted to rape her and kill him,but i just walked away.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
How long did she have you sexless before that?
About a year.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
She had him sexless but was fvcking the other guy or someone else. It was entertaining to her to lay in the bed naked with him but he can't have sex with her.
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You can, I have done it, but its definitely more of a blue pill thing, like with my exposure to red pill, I can see what leads you to think that way.
As per dudes getting cucked, in my mind, how can you be cucked when you have no emotional investment, as you are supposed to have.
Getting cucked is for emotional dudes, cuz every plate that breaks, thats you getting cucked, whether you are aware or not... Only difference is the emotional attachment.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
True. He didn't register in her brain as for sex. It sounds like he wasn't being fully weak in the situation, but he did allow the sexless position without ejecting.
They obviously were having sex when the baby conceived. I wonder if she was doing any other forms of intimacy with him like massages, kissing, hand jobs or blow jobs?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Were you getting any other intimacy during this year? Kissing, Hand jobs, blow jobs, anal?
2 months after she left she wanted me to **** her,i did. Since then just presents,sleeping naked with me,making dinners,i got birthday gift with hearts on the gifts,she took pics of me and the kid without me knowing and Send that to me. Once she gave me a "clone a *****". I didnt now why but asked her to do that on her because I dnt have a *****. She said "when i bought it i wanted you to do it on me but i dnt want it now"
Shes been telling me about how she uses her vibrator a lot,even told me after shes started ****ing him. Like "sex!? I got my vibrator!"
After i caught them she begged me that she wanted everything should be like before. Dinners,hanging,sleepovers,breakfast,
chilling...and so on.
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Why are you giving her what she wants if you do not get what you want?
You get what you want or its done, no in-between, this is the art of negotiation.
I fought for her because I wanted my family. I realise now that she only played me. Its just after i caught them ive been putting my fot down. She said that she been feeling very down because of the brekup and did not want to see me with some girl. That she said right after i caught them.
She did not want to move to my villiage because the fear of seeing me with another girl. (She lives far from here and far from preeschool)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.