You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Hitler is portrayed as a one dimensional comic book super villain and I don't buy it. I don't think he was inherently hateful and he never wanted war. The indigenous Germanic people of danzig were being persecuted by the poles and that's a fact. Before ww1 danzig wasn't part of Poland at all and after ww1 they were treated like garbage. It was justified. Americans put the Japanese in concentration camps its no different. Also Americans dropped and nuclear bomb on civilians in Japan, the fire bombing of Dresden. George s Patton admitted we defeated the wrong enemy. The communists in Russia murder a significant larger amount of people, and people that were primarily white Christians. 9/10 of the men in charge of gulags were Jewish too, they imprisoned, tortured and murdered primarily white people many of who were Christians.From everything I've read - including first hand accounts from Americans - the Germans were a civil people.
They weren't the murderers we've been made to believe.

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah 6 million muh d1ck. That number is unfounded and unverifiable. The main reason I started to question the official version of the holocaust is only because it's illegal to publicly question in 13 countries, even questioning a minute detail publicly its considered "holocaust denial" and its a crime punishable by time in prison. As an American the concept of making it a crime to question something or making it a crime to say something is absolutely insane and triggers homicidal tendencies. Makes me want disappear in the woods and come back a year or a few years later and create such a cyclone of chaos that no one will ever even consider suppressing free speech again, even to ostracize someone for stating their beliefs makes me want to automatically support that person.These were not labeled "death camp" because they were not. Simple as that.
One cannot say the same about the Allied Prison Camps, where german POWs death rate was high.
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