"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Message from daughters mom.........

CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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All things associated with virtue or social justice are actually facades for the transfer of wealth.

This is no different, if you were broke youd be the best dad
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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moms are masters at manipulation and making dads feel like lousy fathers. Long as you know you're doing the best you can then screw her.
This 100%

She is twisting things to make you feel bad, this is a gaslight attempt imo.
 

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If you pay attention to ex wives especially if you have children. She will be attempting to take power in any situation you are a part of that she's aware. Or lesson your influence, which is still "taking".

She will paint you as a bad guy and incapable and her ego depends on keeping you leveraged "down". This is why they are furious when you find happiness and another grateful female in your life.
This is my situation with ex right now.
Im happy so she is trying to get to me thru my daughters.
 

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This is my situation with ex right now.
Im happy so she is trying to get to me thru my daughters.
A strong gf, dating life or wife is a hedge of protection against her attacks. She knows shes wrong and the better you live the more she knows it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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