I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Look @ his chin length, makes Jay Leno have a chin inferiority complex.Turns out the meme is actually based on a real person. He's a Russian dude.
I lol'd hard watching this video.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
People talk about this misterious man who happens to have girls writing first on tinder.^^The minimum requirement to score in 2023
How the fvck is it possible that I couldnt get anything on OLD here except a few girls who are so unattractive to me that i wouldnt have sex with them for money, while guys on this forum with worse physical traits than me claim to be fvcking many new girls every year through OLD in New York.People talk about this misterious man who happens to have girls writing first on tinder.
Yo my man, I recall seeing your pic in Cola's thread, and my honest assessment is that you're a good-looking dude.How the fvck is it possible that I couldnt get anything on OLD here except a few girls who are so unattractive to me that i wouldnt have sex with them for money, while guys on this forum with worse physical traits than me claim to be fvcking many new girls every year through OLD in New York.
Sorry it's just a rant... Just don't know how i am supposed to meet women. I thought university would be it but the fvcking campus is shut down until spring at least. And i don't want to keep fvcking my fwb who can barely even make me hard.... Then it's still a month until i move into My student accommodation, and who knows whether that will even help.
I am introverted and have male-dominated interests too. This means i don't have any social circles, let alone with any young single girls in them. I could try to find some group of girls that do artsy stuff as i want to start doing that too...
I am sick of this... Feeling powerless. And if this is what i feel despite objectively having some good physical assets then what the fvck are guys doing who don't even have that?
Maybe it's that i need to change location? I got a surprising amount of likes once when i set fake gps to Indonesia by mistake. I don't fvcking know.
Again sorry, sometimes the experience of scarcity just becomes too much and you need to let the steam out.
Will it ever be my turn to have it some fvcking easier? God damnit.

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If he accepts you as a friend, your test levels raise 5x.
1)Dont listen to what users of this board say, half of them cant tell the difference from a fat woman and a curvy one and very likely aint banging any....1/3 of western men are sex starved and I find it very unlikely that the winners happens to be all here.How the fvck is it possible that I couldnt get anything on OLD here except a few girls who are so unattractive to me that i wouldnt have sex with them for money, while guys on this forum with worse physical traits than me claim to be fvcking many new girls every year through OLD in New York.
Sorry it's just a rant... Just don't know how i am supposed to meet women. I thought university would be it but the fvcking campus is shut down until spring at least. And i don't want to keep fvcking my fwb who can barely even make me hard.... Then it's still a month until i move into My student accommodation, and who knows whether that will even help.
I am introverted and have male-dominated interests too. This means i don't have any social circles, let alone with any young single girls in them. I could try to find some group of girls that do artsy stuff as i want to start doing that too...
I am sick of this... Feeling powerless. And if this is what i feel despite objectively having some good physical assets then what the fvck are guys doing who don't even have that?
Maybe it's that i need to change location? I got a surprising amount of likes once when i set fake gps to Indonesia by mistake. I don't fvcking know.
Again sorry, sometimes the experience of scarcity just becomes too much and you need to let the steam out.
Will it ever be my turn to have it some fvcking easier? God damnit.
If I go on exchange study to USA I can go to San Diego, North Carolina (Chapel Hill) or Oklahoma (Norman). I can go to other places too but theyre too far north, too cold (the most southern after those 3 was New Jersey). I was wanting to go to Australia or New Zealand... But im not sure about that, don't want to go somewhere else where id just live like this.Yo my man, I recall seeing your pic in Cola's thread, and my honest assessment is that you're a good-looking dude.
You kinda got that Kid n' Play look going on.
But the problem is that OLD is a wasteland for ethniks and mixed race guys so you really can't expect much luck there.
Sorry to say it, but you're gonna have to wait for things to open back up again because your best option is to meet women face-to-face because it's the only way to get past the race filter on OLD.
And you know what's really ironic: you would be slaying in conservative Texas and probably get dissed in liberal San Francisco.
Perhaps when things open up again it's time to consider a relocation.
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If I go on exchange study to USA I can go to San Diego, North Carolina (Chapel Hill) or Oklahoma (Norman). I can go to other places too but theyre too far north, too cold (the most southern after those 3 was New Jersey). I was wanting to go to Australia or New Zealand... But im not sure about that, don't want to go somewhere else where id just live like this.
You got any recommendation or maybe those destinations are all shyt? Haha. I like my girls big. I actually spent some days in Saint Louis years ago, first time in my life that I felt like I clearly got hit on in public twice. Barely saw anyone though since it's a car-based city and it was winter on top of that.
Im not dead set on using OLD at all, i just feel like i have no choice both because of the culture here, that i dislike clubs, that there are very few girls here who are my type, and that i don't use any substances.
What are you studying in University?
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your problem is that you are a liberal nice guy and many women can tell just by a guys photo whether he has the ability to RAIL her or not. Think Jeremy Meeks mugshotHow the fvck is it possible that I couldnt get anything on OLD here except a few girls who are so unattractive to me that i wouldnt have sex with them for money, while guys on this forum with worse physical traits than me claim to be fvcking many new girls every year through OLD in New York.
Sorry it's just a rant... Just don't know how i am supposed to meet women. I thought university would be it but the fvcking campus is shut down until spring at least. And i don't want to keep fvcking my fwb who can barely even make me hard.... Then it's still a month until i move into My student accommodation, and who knows whether that will even help.
I am introverted and have male-dominated interests too. This means i don't have any social circles, let alone with any young single girls in them. I could try to find some group of girls that do artsy stuff as i want to start doing that too...
I am sick of this... Feeling powerless. And if this is what i feel despite objectively having some good physical assets then what the fvck are guys doing who don't even have that?
Maybe it's that i need to change location? I got a surprising amount of likes once when i set fake gps to Indonesia by mistake. I don't fvcking know.
Again sorry, sometimes the experience of scarcity just becomes too much and you need to let the steam out.
Will it ever be my turn to have it some fvcking easier? God damnit.
Because what you study will generally be a good indicator of the type of women you'll be around. For example, I also majored in mathematics and the women I was around weren't particularly attractive.HLFMK - Stockholms universitet
www.su.se
Then im aiming for a master of mathematics (something related to mathematical modeling). Why?
Thats true, being woke does wonder to be liked but its a curse if you wanna have sex.Your problem is that you are a liberal nice guy and many women can tell just by a guys photo whether he has the ability to RAIL her or not. Think Jeremy Meeks mugshot
You have alluded many times that you struggle to make moves and women will know this, again, just from one simple photograph
I know women that reject handsome mommys boys on Tinder for the same reason. They just don't give off "that" vibe.
They have a sixth sense for it
Actually the hottest girls I saw where in the business and law departments...those were the tall well made hotties coming from a rich chad of a father and a hottie mother.Because what you study will generally be a good indicator of the type of women you'll be around. For example, I also majored in mathematics and the women I was around weren't particularly attractive.
The hotter girls were in the psychology, sociology, business departments. I suppose you could hang around those departments and try to spark up conversation, but this is difficult to do if you aren't studying the same topic.
You could be right, I don't have the presentation or poses of a thug or something like that. No tattoos, no arrogant or "dangerous" or criminogenic poses.Your problem is that you are a liberal nice guy and many women can tell just by a guys photo whether he has the ability to RAIL her or not. Think Jeremy Meeks mugshot
You have alluded many times that you struggle to make moves and women will know this, again, just from one simple photograph
I know women that reject handsome mommys boys on Tinder for the same reason. They just don't give off "that" vibe.
They have a sixth sense for it
Ill just talk to whoever i come across in my student accommodation.. then ill just talk to whoever i find on campus.Because what you study will generally be a good indicator of the type of women you'll be around. For example, I also majored in mathematics and the women I was around weren't particularly attractive.
The hotter girls were in the psychology, sociology, business departments. I suppose you could hang around those departments and try to spark up conversation, but this is difficult to do if you aren't studying the same topic.
I don't want to do something again just for women, especially not if it's expensive, that's how i got my worst burn so far when i travelled to see a woman. But if im going on exchange anyway... Id rather go somewhere it's easier to meet and have sex with women.But anyways, of those three cities, San Diego is your best bet.
San Diego has awesome whether, friendly women and people generally chill. They're classical liberals (like myself) and not this new breed of woke neo-liberals that are closeted authoritarians.
Plus, since it's on the border with Mexico, there's a diversity of women available. If you're into thick women, there's thick Latinas and thick PAWGs....
But just keep in mind San Diego is expensive. You really should assess if you want to get deep into debt just to be around women.
University is about getting your degree and getting out ASAP.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.