"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Has Anyone Ever Thought About Creating A Chat Room?

Man'sThirdEye

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This is an awesome forum. I really enjoy this community and I'm really liking how amazing everyone responds to each other. I like how everything is reasonable and that everything that somebody says is up for debate. This isn't the "We Hate Women" forum that I was told it was and I am more than happy that I joined the DJ army. You guys have been really awesome answering all of my posts and doing your best to help me out and that is something that is RARE. Like women, men need to come to each other's aid. And that is exactly what you guys are doing and that is HONORABLE. So, I guess this post is a half thank you. The other half is a question, but more of a proposition.

Have any of you thought about potentially setting up a discord or a teamspeak server or anything like that where people could come in and talk about some of the subjects that we talk about here? I know you guys are fast and respond well to new posts but I think it would be even better to have somewhere where we could actually vent or talk or debate and just have a likeminded individual like ourselves share some thoughts and opinions like we do here. I think it would be a great idea and I just wanted to see if anyone would want that or maybe it already exists and I just haven't found it yet. Let me know what you guys think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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HyenaPrince

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This is an awesome forum. I really enjoy this community and I'm really liking how amazing everyone responds to each other. I like how everything is reasonable and that everything that somebody says is up for debate. This isn't the "We Hate Women" forum that I was told it was and I am more than happy that I joined the DJ army. You guys have been really awesome answering all of my posts and doing your best to help me out and that is something that is RARE. Like women, men need to come to each other's aid. And that is exactly what you guys are doing and that is HONORABLE. So, I guess this post is a half thank you. The other half is a question, but more of a proposition.

Have any of you thought about potentially setting up a discord or a teamspeak server or anything like that where people could come in and talk about some of the subjects that we talk about here? I know you guys are fast and respond well to new posts but I think it would be even better to have somewhere where we could actually vent or talk or debate and just have a likeminded individual like ourselves share some thoughts and opinions like we do here. I think it would be a great idea and I just wanted to see if anyone would want that or maybe it already exists and I just haven't found it yet. Let me know what you guys think.
That's an interesting proposal. I don't know how that would work with 20-30 guys on voice chat. Could be chaotic. It's even hard to keep up with static comments sometimes. If you create something like this, there needs to be a 3-4 people limit for each chat room, otherwise conversations would be too crowded. Nobody can listen for that long without being able to signal that they want to chime in.
 

Man'sThirdEye

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That's an interesting proposal. I don't know how that would work with 20-30 guys on voice chat. Could be chaotic. It's even hard to keep up with static comments sometimes. If you create something like this, there needs to be a 3-4 people limit for each chat room, otherwise conversations would be too crowded. Nobody can listen for that long without being able to signal that they want to chime in.
This is true. However, I would love to try and work something out that could be of benefit for this forum. There has already been overwhelming positivity and support toward me and my posts and other users as well so I was just wondering if anybody had thought about taking it to the next level yet.
 

RecoveringPatriarch

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Untill couple of months ago I was member of Discord private group for discussions and uploads. Looooots of uploads from every RSD program to every David Snyder program. Suddenly I was out or group was gone (and not very long after my computer crashed :(At least as much material as bitseduce and such.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Georgepithyou

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Too many guys and it becomes too chaotic, too few guys and it dies down fast.
Pretty hard to strike a balance
 
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