"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chicks are laughing at men's OLD profiles

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/i2wy46 comment:

my opinion: I hope this chick gets r*ped. :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
Take it easy man. No need to say something like that. Instead, you should invest a minimum amount of your time for wishy-washy sweet-talk. By doing this, these types of women won't have any material and thus back off immediately.

You'll filter out the bad ones and end up with the good ones (who want to meet with you).
 

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https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/i2wy46 comment:

my opinion: I hope this chick gets r*ped. :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
Don't worry, she doesn't need to get "r*ped" to teach her a lessson; she's using an online dating app to judge others profiles, her life is so miserable that she feels the need to judge and look down on others to feed her own ego, she is rotting her mind instead of fixing her life, and she will probably die alone, childless, and unhappy. The worst thing you can do with these people is give them attention, ignore them and let them continue to live a pointless existence.

Also for f*ucks sake, stop browsing reddit, it's full of sad and pathetic people and it's probably more toxic than 4chan at this point.
 
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I generally agree with OLD being a waste of time except these last months of lockdown, had many matches and many dates despite being stuck in a very crappy place.

Thankfully Im leaving early september, I believe OLD is proportional to whatever environment you found yourself at where a crappy area has crappy old, also generally whatever your value is as a man once you get in old you lose 1 point while women gets 1 more.

Thats why male 6s dont get matches there and female 6s match only chads.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Extreme is every where
Like let's say.. according to most of who I know, they svck on old. Even those who have good profiles have terrible text game.. so like.. maybe 98% of men make fun of themselves on old? Why would one sit like desperate and joke on it. Cant joke endlessly right
 

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The caliber of women you get from Bumble is not going to be the same from more reputable sites where people are more serious.
 

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OLD sounds like it's little more than an online version of pandering to women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's not that serious, I was getting more matches than ever, met a girl dated her for 2 months now back.
Now i'm getting far less matches oh well it is what it is
 

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Sure she's doing it now but what about in 10 years when she's past her SMV peak and the guys have maintained their SMV.
That's a cope. There will always be hordes of zombie thirsty guys chasing her.
 

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In a way she'll always have attention but they wont be at the same level as CHAD.
Yeah, but she's still at a better level than guys who get zero attention, which are the type of guys she's making fun of.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah, but she's still at a better level than guys who get zero attention, which are the type of guys she's making fun of.
Fair point.
I was thinking of the middle ground guys. The guys her own SMV level but whom she thinks are beneath her.
 

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If you're smart you should be able to filter out the time wasters very quickly. Only very clueless guys are going to go back and forth with them for any length of time.
 

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If you're smart you should be able to filter out the time wasters very quickly. Only very clueless guys are going to go back and forth with them for any length of time.
Exactly
 

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That's a cope. There will always be hordes of zombie thirsty guys chasing her.
women get jaded and bitter by constantly being "used" , you never see a a guy with an abundant love life, of 5 women moan about women on social media do you, the guy thinks its great.


not the same for women, they end up mentally and spiritually destroyed
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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