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Why Are Foreign Girls so much more friendly?

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So the Swedes aren't cucks? I've been seeing that for two years with "man spreading" outlawed and other anti masculinity laws.
I don't know what supposed laws you are referencing.

That's too bad. Gender ratio has got to be the most important factor in terms of having a normal and productive dating life for the average guy.
That and the scale of the setting, which determines how personal the dynamics are. My sister joked that in elementary school one of the most beautiful girls in the school in the grade above mine wanted me and we were flirting (in addition to other girls who liked me above, in, and below my grade). Now it's doubtless that that same woman would X my profile without a second look if she swiped across it.

In the SMP I've gone from having more attractive options than I had the masculine competence to deal with in my teens and having to literally yell at a girl to stop hitting on me, to living like a restaurant waste scavenger in adulthood. That's not only because of the gender ratio, but the changed dynamics from the changed scale. The less personal and more of a large impersonal meat market a setting becomes, the more exclusive male desirability becomes.
 
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Excellent question. I'll take a guess here...

In the west, the media (and particularly social media) pushes "celebrity culture" which sends female narcissism to the moon.

"Friendly" and "down to earth" is not consistent with celebrity culture. It would cause major cognitive dissonance with many western (or westernized) females.

I don't think "hypergamy" or abundance of choices via OLD/apps actually CAUSES the bytchiness. There are some hot chicks that (understandably) only go for hot guys, yet they are still otherwise friendly people in their day to day life.
Interesting. It seems like celebrity culture has been around a long time though. I think it's slightly more specific, the promoting of a certain type of woman as a "bada$$" with an attitude. Obviously there have always been women like that, but American culture holds up this type as the only way women are supposed to be. Think Scarlet O'Hara, or most of Katharine Hepburn's characters for old-school examples. Basically penis-less men.

There used to be more balance with demure types, like Mary Tyler Moore. On her show (which she produced) she was a single woman with a career, but she was sweet and funny. Today if a heroine doesn't have an bytchy attitude she's part of the "patriarchy."
 

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I don't know what supposed laws you are referencing.
"Man spreading" is when a dude sits with his legs open like an eagle proudly spreading its wings.... It's how we males display dominance by advertising our crotch to the world..... Of course, such displays of masculinity triggers the leftists....
 

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"Man spreading" is when a dude sits with his legs open like an eagle proudly spreading its wings.... It's how we males display dominance by advertising our crotch to the world..... Of course, such displays of masculinity triggers the leftists....
I know what it is - I just haven't heard of any law against it or something else in Sweden except in outrage fantasies on the internet.

But personally I wouldn't speculate that sitting with your legs far enough apart to not squeeze your own balls is "a display of dominance like an eagle proudly spreading its wings by advertising our crotch to the world", sure it's a way of sitting associated with masculinity but that specific formulation seems a bit overcompensatory to me haha.
 
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"Man spreading" is when a dude sits with his legs open like an eagle proudly spreading its wings.... It's how we males display dominance by advertising our crotch to the world..... Of course, such displays of masculinity triggers the leftists....
Someone should remind leftists that non leftists men still have their balls dangling between their legs and that its very hard not to spread a lil bit.
 

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I also heard rumors that Sweden's Parliament is considering limitations on how much weight a man should be allowed to lift in the gym.....

They're considering banning free weights from gyms and only allowing machines with a fixed weight stack of no more than 45kg (100lbs)...

Because being too swole perpetuates toxic masculinity......
 

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I also heard rumors that Sweden's Parliament is considering limitations on how much weight a man should be allowed to lift in the gym.....

They're considering banning free weights from gyms and only allowing machines with a fixed weight stack of no more than 45kg (100lbs)...

Because being too swole perpetuates toxic masculinity......
Hahaha now I get it, I'm starting to grow fond of your trigger pulls.

But how about this... while you've been locked out of your gym throughout corona, here in Sweden my gym chain (fitness24seven) has been open the whole time. Is it because our international confederacy of liberal fascist-socialist operatives to bring about the end of masculinity have actually been more successful in America than here? haha!
 
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Is it international confederacy of liberal fascist-socialist operatives to bring about the end of masculinity
I think you may be correct. Masculinity is incompatible with socialism which is why the left has manufactured weird terms like "man spreading", "toxic masculinity" and "patriarchy" to marginalize men.....

...this was an excellent observation on your part.... I salute you....
 

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I also heard rumors that Sweden's Parliament is considering limitations on how much weight a man should be allowed to lift in the gym.....

They're considering banning free weights from gyms and only allowing machines with a fixed weight stack of no more than 45kg (100lbs)...

Because being too swole perpetuates toxic masculinity......
Being stronger promotes a more dominant stronger state of mind.
 

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How would they feel about an energetic and dominant man "who wears the pants", one his wife submits to and he has sex at his behest? Neighbors would call the police on him.
 

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This is a stereotype based on your experience.
 

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This is a stereotype based on your experience.
Most stereotypes are rooted in the truth, we all dont just wake up one day and decide foreign women are friendlier.

This thread proves that I'm not the only one experiencing this.
 

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Everything you encounter in your life, influences your perception rather positively, given that those exact encounters are associated with freshness and novelty. This works both ways. If you visit a different country and are unbiased, you approach locals with a humble and positive attitude. This reflects on them and leads to them being curious as well.

Obviously there's also the fact that women in a foreign country most likely never have to see you again after you had a good time. This lifts the tension of a dirty reputation.

Novelty is always a good thing if you're not a creep yourself. You're like a fresh spring breeze for them. They're not accustomed to your mentality and want to know more.
 

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I find UK to be the hardest. I LOVED doing cold approach in the US (girls are a million times more social, although i'm aware my accent likely helped)
If you have a British accent, you’re almost automatically a Chad in the US. French accent comes second lol
Of course the whole 'higher value' foreigner is a thing. Not disputing that at all

BUT there is still a clear difference in receptivity and how strangers interact between countries. As I say, I found the US to be a dream compared to the UK and a few other countries i've visited. Even in a bar seeing how other men who are strangers interact with each other was very different and way more social and friendly
Maybe because you’re British. Go to Scotland—It’s like Ireland but bass boosted.
Bro, from what I understand the Lebanese (both men and women) are the absolute most beautiful people in the Middle East. I believe it's because they are a mixed people with Phoenician, Semitic, Greek, Roman, Persian and European (from the Crusades) DNA..... They're also the most liberal people in the ME because they come from a secular nation instead of a theocratic nation.

Just take a look at George Clooney's wife. The gal is smoking hot and she's well-educated and well-cultured.
Take it from me—they’re not all that. They just always have that exotic look to them wherever they go. Other than that, they just stay slim.
Ahhh.... touché.... you're correct. I should have said they're the most liberal Muslim people of the ME.

In terms of beauty, I think it might be a tie between Israel and Lebanon as to which demographic is the most beautiful in the ME.
They're Christian, not Muslim. That’s why France separated them from the rest of Syria even though they’re literally the same people ethnically-speaking lol. Israeli settlers are not attractive either btw. When you look at their torsos, you’ll find they’re boxy. For whatever reason, I find that they tend to have very even fat distribution all throughout their bodies (almost like skinnyfat in a way), which means that they look better than the average potbellied fatass here in the States lol simply because it means they look a lot more proportionate. But when the clothes come off, they don’t have very much to show for, and that goes for both guys and girls. Their bodies are androgynous, like children’s bodies but simply large enough for an adult. The women have no curves like wide hips or smaller waists, and the men don’t have broad shoulders. It’s weird. Just long, lanky limbs on a rectangular torso. Think Mr. Potato Head, that’s essentially what a lot of them look like lol.

That’s not to say ALL of them look like that, but it’s a trend I’ve noticed with them.
For example, look how much the media has been running propaganda against President Triumph (I have to type "Triumph" to avoid getting my posts deleted), has it even fazed Triumph or Triumph's base?

H3ll no. No amount media spin can make Triumph or Triumph's base budge. And that highlights the difference in mentality between Americans and the Euro bros - Americans have a fighting spirit, the western Euro bros are cvcked.....
That’s only because many people got sick of the just how extreme leftist propaganda went. Europe never went nearly as far as we did with the political doublespeak and fluent bull**** that’s been forcefed down everyone’s throats. You’ll never hear about schools teaching children that there’s as many genders as they want there to be, nor is there such a thing as drag queen storytime or anything like that. You might find a few one-offs every once in a blue moon if you really dig, but it’s definitely not common nor is it forced, either. We’ve just been made to deal with more liberal crap than Europe since we’re at the epicenter of culture in the Western hemisphere and are at the forefront of social movements. We’re also more religious/spiritual apparently lol (and we’re anything but lmfao) so there’s tons of contrast too.

I also have a ‘theory’ for why Americans and Australians are more wild than our European (esp British) counterparts. Before the US declared independence, Britain used to send all of their criminals to the US. After the war, they likely were freed and became apart of society. As these people were essentially criminals (and there were likely los of them), they created different social environments once released that just kind of stuck. Not to mention the whole reproducing thing and all that. After the US declared independence, Britain began sending their criminals to Australia instead, and like us yankees, eventually underwent the same thing.

Other than that, I’d say most Americans are soy.
One of my friends from there says that plastic surgery is huge in Lebanon. Most women from that part of the world have had a lot of work done. I have met more than my fair share of chubby and hideous Lebanese girls.
It’s true that Lebanese chicks get cosmetic surgery more than others, but that’s only in Lebanon bro. Nowhere else in the ME do they get work done like that because it’s strongly frowned upon, except maybe Iran, and that’s only nosejobs (and apparently trannies too RIP).
My friend, what you posted is true: the irony of the big coastal liberal cities (San Francisco) being the most racist and the conservative locations being more open to men of color.....
My mom wears a scarf around her head and said that the people from the KKK were very nice to her when we went to Indiana once. I’m not even joking...
Is it because our international confederacy of liberal fascist-socialist operatives to bring about the end of masculinity have actually been more successful in America than here? haha!
Well your government isn’t stuck debating over stupid antics like ours just to try an oust a president who doesn’t fit the status quo. Outrage culture is alive and well in the US thanks to the libtards in power. And the herd creatures known as “womyn” along with their eunuch friends support them because they can’t think for themselves and think that’s how they’re supposed to act. Stupid is as stupid does though, right? Big sigh....
I think you may be correct. Masculinity is incompatible with socialism which is why the left has manufactured weird terms like "man spreading", "toxic masculinity" and "patriarchy" to marginalize men.....

...this was an excellent observation on your part.... I salute you....
Actually, international women’s day started in none other than Soviet Russia, where Marxism and leftist ideology originated from. The original leftist libtard ‘progressive’ pseudointellectual pansies started from there. And I actually mean libtardism as a disease, not just liberalism as an ideology. Stupid outrage culture with propaganda and idiotic nitpicking over pointless semantics (much like how how most college liberals today are like) existed over there exactly like that. The reason why the Bolsheviks took power was because Lenin got sick of all the petty quibbling going on because nothing was getting done at all. Otherwise he’d likely have tried to stay in whatever Congress/Parliament they had and try to gain power through support of the people over time like how most political parties do, rather than just usurp power for himself/themselves.
 

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I did't read any of the replies because I didn't want my answer to be influenced by them
if a foreign woman in your country is friendly, that's because she is on vacation and in a good mood. if you go to vacation in hawaii, you will be friendly too
if she is not on vacation, could be your accent, australian girls don't find your accent interesting because they have the same accent
but I find russian girls extremely cold and unfriendly. so there's an exception to your rule.
 

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I did't read any of the replies because I didn't want my answer to be influenced by them
if a foreign woman in your country is friendly, that's because she is on vacation and in a good mood. if you go to vacation in hawaii, you will be friendly too
if she is not on vacation, could be your accent, australian girls don't find your accent interesting because they have the same accent
but I find russian girls extremely cold and unfriendly. so there's an exception to your rule.
Russian and Ukrainian are the most overrated women on the planet, most are not even blonde but swarthy. Most do not even look that good either. They are very promiscuous with little morals.

But back on point, i think thats right the exotic factor which is why i consider rooshvs quote "go to a place where you don't look and act like the locals"
 

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Russian and Ukrainian are the most overrated women on the planet, most are not even blonde but swarthy. Most do not even look that good either. They are very promiscuous with little morals.

But back on point, i think thats right the exotic factor which is why i consider rooshvs quote "go to a place where you don't look and act like the locals"
I mentioned in a few of @Good Gao's threads before he got banned and his threads deleted that in my personal experience Polish and Ukrainian women are the most friendly of the Slavic females while Russian females are to be treated with caution.

I've noticed that Polish women, in particular, are quite voluptuous with some insane curves.
 

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As mentioned before, a lot of people are on their best behavior when visiting a foreign land and/or they are just having a good time on vacation/holiday so they are in a good mood.

When I would meet foreign visitors in say Vegas or NYC (pre C19), I would always be very friendly and polite to them because I wanted them to have a good impression of Americans (instead of whatever awful things the news media told them) and to enjoy their visit.
 

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As mentioned before, a lot of people are on their best behavior when visiting a foreign land and/or they are just having a good time on vacation/holiday so they are in a good mood.

When I would meet foreign visitors in say Vegas or NYC (pre C19), I would always be very friendly and polite to them because I wanted them to have a good impression of Americans (instead of whatever awful things the news media told them) and to enjoy their visit.
I don't believe he was specific about status in the U.S. He simply mentioned foreign girls being friendly. We do not even know if he is a national or an immigrat, and we do not know if the presumed girl is a national, an immigrant, or a tourist. Based on my experiences, there is no need to be either one. If she treats you friendly, then see if you fvck her by bringing her to the next level. You didn't provide enough details. Perception plays an important role.
 
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