"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Let me guess, you've never been to europe anywhere and get your infos from CNN?







Anyway that was not the point of my post, my post was about the press being completely unreliable and fake just like when they happen to willingly omit sharing details about the attackers.

We knew who the attackers were from russian today...even before than the local press, is it a coincidence?
I think that you and other people on this thread who hold certain views are guilty of looking at biased news yourself. There is no "press" like you have in the 80s. Right-wingers tune into conspiracy news channels and Fox news, etc... and think everything else is fake news. I look at CNN/Young Turks/local Cable broadcasts and occasionally look at Black news channels highlighting all racist incidents that are happening and I'll think your news is biased. So, it's impossible to have a constructive dialogue about the issues because we can't come to a consensus of fact and you just end up with factions within threads with their own echo chambers and have a break-down.

This is the biggest thread on this section, with the most amount of replies, and most amount of views, and probably hasn't gone anywhere further than the first set of posts. So the solution I think is for people to look at other news channels that present a conflicting view to what they believe and be open-minded, and think, maybe this is what my set of news channel is omitting.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think that you and other people on this thread who hold certain views are guilty of looking at biased news yourself. There is no "press" like you have in the 80s. Right-wingers tune into conspiracy news channels and Fox news, etc... and think everything else is fake news. I look at CNN/Young Turks/local Cable broadcasts and occasionally look at Black news channels highlighting all racist incidents that are happening and I'll think your news is biased. So, it's impossible to have a constructive dialogue about the issues because we can't come to a consensus of fact and you just end up with factions within threads with their own echo chambers and have a break-down.

This is the biggest thread on this section, with the most amount of replies, and most amount of views, and probably hasn't gone anywhere further than the first set of posts. So the solution I think is for people to look at other news channels that present a conflicting view to what they believe and be open-minded, and think, maybe this is what my set of news channel is omitting.
Its not about conspiracies or ad hominem as usual, its just that if something relevant happens I want to be told about it while if something is not relevant I dont want it to be repeated day and night only cause it fits an agenda.

Why cant you understand such basic things?

Why any goddam tv service needs to remind us that "women are mistreated" when we all know its not true while in 20 years I never heard them say that marriages are falling down and divorces are initiated from women 70% of the time?

Why if an immigrant returns a wallet its main news for a day while if a group of immigrants backstab an oldie to steal their money its not even mentioned?

So the second FACT becomes a fake news cause russia today is reporting it?

Truth is that you like most of this leftist mob have no sense of justice, fairness or honor its really that simple, just like women you decide whats right or wrong according to a political cult called political correctness.
 

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To the guys here who keeps on harping abt racism.

Explain this to me,

1. Why aren't black kids graduating from high-school?

2. Why do 70% of black women end up as single mom's ?

3. Why are cases of black kids shooting each other significantly higher then other races?

4. Why are 13% of the population responsible for 50% of the murders in America?

5. Finally, do explain why are the number of black kids in prison so high? (Don't even bother lying that they're all innocent).

Now if you guys can't come up with an answer, then it's best you just admit, that ur black culture sucks.

And since it sucks, don't bother trying to whitewash it with racism because you'll never change ur mindset and things will continue to suck.

If you want to see improvements in ur black community, 1st change ur culture.
 

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Its not about conspiracies or ad hominem as usual, its just that if something relevant happens I want to be told about it while if something is not relevant I dont want it to be repeated day and night only cause it fits an agenda.

Why cant you understand such basic things?

Why any goddam tv service needs to remind us that "women are mistreated" when we all know its not true while in 20 years I never heard them say that marriages are falling down and divorces are initiated from women 70% of the time?
This is not a thread about women. If you want to look at the Handmaid's Tale, then you are free to watch that and you'll see what could happen with women under a crazy right-wing government.

The rest of your post sounds too triggering. At the end of the day you are not interested in any mutually respectful discourse and I'm not interested in wasting my time.
 
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To the guys here who keeps on harping abt racism.

Explain this to me,
Sure, I'll indulge.

1. Why aren't black kids graduating from high-school?
That is a lie. Black kids are graduating from school.

2. Why do 70% of black women end up as single mom's ?
Because cops are murdering black men.

3. Why are cases of black kids shooting each other significantly higher then other races?

4. Why are 13% of the population responsible for 50% of the murders in America?
Poverty begets crime. Black people are disproportionately poor living in disproportionately poor neighborhoods.

5. Finally, do explain why are the number of black kids in prison so high? (Don't even bother lying that they're all innocent).
Racism. Black kids are treated as adults. Why else would police murder a 12 year old boy for playing with a toy gun?

Now if you guys can't come up with an answer, then it's best you just admit, that ur black culture sucks.
Black culture is American culture. Where do you think Rock and Roll came from?

And since it sucks, don't bother trying to whitewash it with racism because you'll never change ur mindset and things will continue to suck.
Everyone already knows you hate black people.

If you want to see improvements in ur black community, 1st change ur culture.
Human rights are non-negotiable. Police violence is simply unacceptable.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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People flying the Antifa and BLM flags are now openly extorting businesses in Louisville KY. They are threatening repercussions if their insane social justice demands are not met. One business has already been threatened for failing to comply. I salute that brave man.

This movement has always been about seizing power. And now it has become properly evil. These "activisits" just use Social Justice and feel-good causes to mobilize all the Useful Idiots. These activists don't give two craps about ethics.

The victim of this particular extorsion is a cuban immigrant who escaped Castro. He is calling them out their stupid f%cking movement for the trojan horse for socialism that it is. He has already watched this happen before.

If you stand up for BLM at this point, you are complicit in extortion as a valid tactic to achieve goals. They will eventually come to your door if you don't stand up for yourself.
 

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People flying the Antifa and BLM flags are now openly extorting businesses in Louisville KY. They are threatening repercussions if their insane social justice demands are not met. One business has already been threatened for failing to comply. I salute that brave man.
What's insane about police not killing black people?

This movement has always been about seizing power. And now it has become properly evil. These "activisits" just use Social Justice and feel-good causes to mobilize all the Useful Idiots. These activists don't give two craps about ethics.
Explain how opposing police violence is evil.

The victim of this particular extorsion is a cuban immigrant who escaped Castro. He is calling them out their stupid f%cking movement for the trojan horse for socialism that it is. He has already watched this happen before.
Socialism is the trillion dollar bailouts Trump keeps giving to corporations.

If you stand up for BLM at this point, you are complicit in extortion as a valid tactic to achieve goals. They will eventually come to your door if you don't stand up for yourself.
...so you don't agree that police need stop murdering black people?
 

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What's insane about police not killing black people?



Explain how opposing police violence is evil.



Socialism is the trillion dollar bailouts Trump keeps giving to corporations.



...so you don't agree that police need stop murdering black people?
You be trollin again?
 

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I’ll just close this thread rather than have to put the ban hammer down on any of ya’all. SoSuave lives matter.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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