As title states, how do you deal with nagging woman? I am often quite eager to tell em' just to "please stop talking, I cant listen to you anymore" but we all know that will only do the nagging worse after the 2.6 seconds of silence that may follow, if you are lucky.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How do you deal with nagging woman?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lamath
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Rian Stone have a very good series on this
About assertiveness technique
When i say no i feel guilty series
Fogging
Broken record
Possitive and negative enquiry
www.skillsyouneed.com
About assertiveness technique
When i say no i feel guilty series
Fogging
Broken record
Possitive and negative enquiry
Assertiveness Techniques | SkillsYouNeed
Develop your assertiveness skills - learn and practice simple techniques to help you be more assertive, boost your confidence and improve your communication.
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Augustus_McCrae
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Turn your back on them. That is a nuclear slap in the face that every woman will understand.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I feel this could only make things worse and what would follow is "oh you are not listening to me? I have beet talking to myself all this time, you are never listening to me..."
You’ve already lost if she starts nagging on you. It’s her attempt to control your mental landscape. Two ways to handle that level of disrespect are S&D or confrontation, and silence while in her vicinity signals acceptance and agreement. If you don’t have the distance also, there will be confrontation if your heads screwed on straight.
Reyaj
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Just ignore them and pay no mind. It's equivalent to a dog barking... can you really let their nature phase you?
RickTheToad
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I don't. You say stop it and use the magic word of NO. I've not had a nagger in a long time. Though, I find most people annoying at times.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
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I had a ex. She would be a nag if i stayed in there with her. They do it for attention and control. Anyways i was always out the house doing hobbies or working on cars or projects. I saw her before bedtime and we got it in nightly. That was the attention. If i hung in there and
We know "cvcking" is literally in their playbook....
Is "nagging" also in their playbook?
There must be a definitive set of tools and situations that they place a man in to gain further control and degrade him even more...
RickTheToad
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Don't know about the c ucking, as I've never been in that position. I can say, I've really never had a lady give me an ultimatum or try to c uck me. Several have told me they were surprised I walked away as fast I did and "give up"; but I digress. If it ain't working, then you leave. I do not see the big deal. For a man to put up with crap for no reason is illogical.
mrgoodstuff
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Men try to tough thru and fvck themselves. Your smart getting out of There if she's being disrespectful.
RickTheToad
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If there is no respect, then there's no relationship. It's a fine line, but at it's base, the lady MUST respect the man and be subservient to him. Not a slave, but he leads, she follows. This whole reverse gender BS where the lady leads and the man follows is utter BS and this is why a lady doesn't respect her man. At the most basic level, she wants to feel protected and her man can beat off the sabertooth tiger. If she's the leader, and he just jumps when she tells him to jump, how does that work for them?
This. If you haven't been doing proper maintenance, don't whine when your car starts to break down. If she's nagging you, it's because you've already let her know since day 1 that it's ok for her to do so. It's not just about how you react to her, but rather how you present yourself to the world. If you like who you are and how you roll, and she's still nagging you, then it's time to hit the eject button. Life is too short to spend with people who want to change you, but again, if she sees you as a project to fix, you've most likely been projecting false strength, and are a beta in alpha clothing.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Will Smith lost face big in this last situation. The new guy was actually a friend of their son and ended up being the friend of the family. The more Will talks, the more face he loses and the weaker he looks.
mrgoodstuff
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This was a very good video. Being strong in this knowledge will keep one strong and whole in most of the "relationship" or "dating" situations. People stuff.Rian Stone have a very good series on this
About assertiveness technique
When i say no i feel guilty series
Fogging
Broken record
Possitive and negative enquiry
Assertiveness Techniques | SkillsYouNeed
Develop your assertiveness skills - learn and practice simple techniques to help you be more assertive, boost your confidence and improve your communication.
He pointed out that therapist and dating coaches have the same problems that they have the solutions to fixing. Professional level solutions... How can they have these same problems, giving out advise to another...
The reason was it's easier to give the advise than to follow it. The advise in many cases is really good stuff. But some of the guys here that got "entangled" in situations, realize the know what to do about it. They get told what to do about it, and it's just unbearably hard to do it and follow thru... It's the same for the therepists and dating coaches.
Saw that podcast too, his wife had him on a short leash. Its probably the final state of what prince Harry experiences.
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Gotta live the DiCaprio way man.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.