mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Good at sex but an entire week and a half difficulty performing. I wonder if he told her a week and a half ago and HER energy changed. Causing him not to be aroused.As was said earlier, she's not judging, she's just admittedly not attracted to him. It's not something you can force or choose.
I think everyone has a right and an obligation to worry about herself. It doesn't mean she's immature or lacks empathy. At 20 she's mature enough to recognize that relationships work best when each party derives genuine happiness from them. If she is just sucking it up to please him and others it won't work. Her doubt is only over what others will think (e.g. her friend). It wouldn't be fair to this guy if she stayed with him for appearances or shame from others.
I DO think she could give it a few more months and then she how she feels, since the erectile dysfunction and confidence issue may have been because of his fear to disclose. But she still would have to be true to herself.
The guy also "just started" seeing a therapist so I think he's got some progress to make.