"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm back and thanks guys I can at this point 100% say idgaf about her lol. I had an epiphany if u wanna call it that. And hovering. Yes pretty sure she is doing it now. Her friends are talking to me about her which never happens. Also her new bf up and left her like she left me. Haha feels awesome. I know im a good looking dude and I like to think I'm a decent human being. She didn't deserve me. I would be trying to slay woman but this corona is really messing me up lol. Once again the advice was deeply appreciated guys seriously.
She didn't deserve you, you're right.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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