The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
my opinion: It's over for speeddatecels.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
BS, they can know if they are attracted that quick though. And if she is "speed" dating, that means your "in"Women know if date is a potential partner within 90 seconds
New research shows that women know whether their date is a potential partner within the first 90 seconds of meeting them, compared to 5 minutes for men.relationships.femalefirst.co.uk
my opinion: It's over for speeddatecels.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Probably truthfully. Being a Realtor is sort of a dime a dozen these days as the market is flooded with agents. If you are not really making enough money to live on then it's a more sophisticated way of saying your unemployed/underemployed. Depends on the energy, tone, and how passionate you are about it. It seems too many people have a Real-Estate license, and people have access to the MLS without needing an agent, so that it doesn't get much points, as compared to say, if you were a doctor, journalist or high-profile lawyer, etc... Its like saying you work in the entertainment industry but are an extra rather than an A-list actor. Different degrees of the same thing.
This. Most of the women who attend these events are ugly though.
It's not like Chads go to these events either, A chad already has a food social circlw which gives him a mountain of poosey to slay
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
The only frame you really need to get their attention is your body and face shape...everything else comes later and for that 3 seconds are more than enough.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.