"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My interest level dropped into negative territory

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Thought I had a prospect until I found out she was into astrology and tarrot cards. I swear I have to be careful about getting too girl-hungry and taking on any girl who is nice with me. This feels like a trojan horse man. She hugged me a few times when I was in the store and I was very comfortable with her. Now it feels like I was playing with a live grenade when I found that out.

First rule is NEVER ASSUME any girl you are talking to is a NORMAL girl. They wear any funny rings, or wear black, black eyelashes or something, don't assume it's some quirk, but don't engage. I'm in shock as I'm writing this. The only worst shock I could be in is if I found out a girl was a tranny or a female grey alien with fake human skin on or something like that, but how I feel is still pretty argh.

Has anyone found out such a thing about any girl they've deal with where you just feel like something crashed when you found out something about her. Now I'm worried she is spiritually spying on me. I hope she doesn't like me like that because I don't want any spirits coming my way. If I ever complain about being an incel again on here just remind me about this incident and this will keep my mouth shut for good. What did I do to attract such a lady? I think it's the porn. This is the best reason to avoid looking at porn or fapping, or you may attract a trojan horse into your life. I think viewing porn sends the wrong message into the universe/spiritual world and attracts the wrong types of women. That's what this has to be.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thought I had a prospect until I found out she was into astrology and tarrot cards. I swear I have to be careful about getting too girl-hungry and taking on any girl who is nice with me. This feels like a trojan horse man. She hugged me a few times when I was in the store and I was very comfortable with her. Now it feels like I was playing with a live grenade when I found that out.

First rule is NEVER ASSUME any girl you are talking to is a NORMAL girl. They wear any funny rings, or wear black, black eyelashes or something, don't assume it's some quirk, but don't engage. I'm in shock as I'm writing this. The only worst shock I could be in is if I found out a girl was a tranny or a female grey alien with fake human skin on or something like that, but how I feel is still pretty argh.

Has anyone found out such a thing about any girl they've deal with where you just feel like something crashed when you found out something about her. Now I'm worried she is spiritually spying on me. I hope she doesn't like me like that because I don't want any spirits coming my way. If I ever complain about being an incel again on here just remind me about this incident and this will keep my mouth shut for good. What did I do to attract such a lady? I think it's the porn. This is the best reason to avoid looking at porn or fapping, or you may attract a trojan horse into your life. I think viewing porn sends the wrong message into the universe/spiritual world and attracts the wrong types of women. That's what this has to be.
That’s funny, sounds like drunk thoughts and humor.

Both of the things you mention are tools for personal development. It’s rare, at least for me, to engage with women who aren’t into some form of consciousness expanding activity.
 

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Thought I had a prospect until I found out she was into astrology and tarrot cards. I swear I have to be careful about getting too girl-hungry and taking on any girl who is nice with me. This feels like a trojan horse man. She hugged me a few times when I was in the store and I was very comfortable with her. Now it feels like I was playing with a live grenade when I found that out.

First rule is NEVER ASSUME any girl you are talking to is a NORMAL girl. They wear any funny rings, or wear black, black eyelashes or something, don't assume it's some quirk, but don't engage. I'm in shock as I'm writing this. The only worst shock I could be in is if I found out a girl was a tranny or a female grey alien with fake human skin on or something like that, but how I feel is still pretty argh.

Has anyone found out such a thing about any girl they've deal with where you just feel like something crashed when you found out something about her. Now I'm worried she is spiritually spying on me. I hope she doesn't like me like that because I don't want any spirits coming my way. If I ever complain about being an incel again on here just remind me about this incident and this will keep my mouth shut for good. What did I do to attract such a lady? I think it's the porn. This is the best reason to avoid looking at porn or fapping, or you may attract a trojan horse into your life. I think viewing porn sends the wrong message into the universe/spiritual world and attracts the wrong types of women. That's what this has to be.
Well, well, well..... I have known more than a few girls who are into astrology of some kind.... A book, 2 books, 3 books, a group, som vodoo here and there, but they do not look crazy or ar gothic or pretend to be witches.... I also know some astrology or believe I know but it is way stronger than the average you find in bookshelf.... However, I don't tell them a fvcking word about it and act like hmmm uhh hmmm. Ok uhh hmmmm if they bring the topic up for conversation. Astrology is very little practical because it does not help you to pick up women, but it tells how to people can relate and connect. Have you ever Google the sex positions by astrological sign. Those positions based on Sun sign are true, at least for the bytches I fvck...
 

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Have you ever Google the sex positions by astrological sign. Those positions based on Sun sign are true, at least for the bytches I fvck...
Hell no. I would not be interested in the least as I am not pagan.

The girl started looking more normally and did not look gothic or crazy as of recent. This was more earlier on. She stopped wearing black or weird rings. Maybe she realized she was spooking out guys.
 

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Hell no. I would not be interested in the least as I am not pagan.

The girl started looking more normally and did not look gothic or crazy as of recent. This was more earlier on. She stopped wearing black or weird rings. Maybe she realized she was spooking out guys.
Did she ever wear a black belt around her neck and black eyelashes.....???? I've been told they like to be choked during sex.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Did she ever wear a black belt around her neck and black eyelashes.....???? I've been told they like to be choked during sex.
It's your job to communicate to find out what she likes. Randomly choking women can get a man in trouble.
 

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So far I'm okay. The only bad reaction I got spiritually from a woman happened on December 6, 2014 where I felt I was under severe spiritual attack and she was a prostitute named Bianca that I saw the previous night. It was so bad that I felt she was a closet witch or something casting spells on her clients, lol! I doubt a hug or text message sequence can be compared in scale to that last great spiritual attack and it's unfair to compare a prostitute I dealt with 6 years ago with a woman that I've done nothing with. Women simply can't have that level of destructive power over any random guy, except if they are a prostitute? Anyway I'm fine right now and nothing has happened since I wrote this post or got that text message, no attack has happened like that.
 

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It's your job to communicate to find out what she likes. Randomly choking women can get a man in trouble.
When I am in bed and with a naked woman, I do whatever I want or at least try. I dont know you, but I take control of the situation. Some women like it and some dont, Most do. I don't take to bed a woman half interested in me. I don't believe you understand what I am talking about. No one is getting in trouble.
 
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So far I'm okay. The only bad reaction I got spiritually from a woman happened on December 6, 2014 where I felt I was under severe spiritual attack and she was a prostitute named Bianca that I saw the previous night. It was so bad that I felt she was a closet witch or something casting spells on her clients, lol! I doubt a hug or text message sequence can be compared in scale to that last great spiritual attack and it's unfair to compare a prostitute I dealt with 6 years ago with a woman that I've done nothing with. Women simply can't have that level of destructive power over any random guy, except if they are a prostitute? Anyway I'm fine right now and nothing has happened since I wrote this post or got that text message, no attack has happened like that.
I don't know any woman who is a prostitute and witch. I stay the fvck away from any type of women with leather shyt and tattoos and wierd stuff, looking a bit crazy, lesbian, bisexual type.
 

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When I am in bed and with a naked woman, I do whatever I want or a least try. I dont know you, but I take control of the situation. Some women like it and some don't. Most do, I don't take to be a woman half interested in me. I don't believe you understand what I am talking about. No one is getting in trouble.
I do too. But with a babe trying to "get shyt on you", it can get us in trouble. I do what I want and excessive rules or boundaries means were not compatible. Plus a babe can ask you to do these things, and you still get into trouble with the law.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't know any woman who is a prostitute and witch. I stay the fvck away from any type of women with leather shyt and tattoos and wierd stuff, looking a bit crazy, lesbian, bisexual type.
You might not know that you know, but many of em are doing it undercover. A bunch of instagram babes do it
 

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I mean undercover "prostitutes"...
I see... Yeah. I have watched some 48 hours TV series where the victim is found dead and that is when family finds out she was a hoe. Many women are. Minimum wage is ****. An Escort can make 300 to 400 an hour and a high end can make 1000 and over.
I got to work a week to make 1000. They can do that in a couple of hours.
 

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I see... Yeah. I have watched some 48 hours TV series where the victim is found dead and that is when family finds out she was a hoe. Many women are. Minimum wage is ****. An Escort can make 300 to 400 an hour and a high end can make 1000 and over.
I got to work a week to make 1000. They can do that in a couple of hours.
THose are nice numbers, they always quote the HIGH numbers just like strippers, but most of them get $100-$200. They put themselves in bad positions. Over time the prostitute IS the wolf, as she has "thugs" and "criminals" swarming around her protecting her and helping her to get shyt on her clients.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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THose are nice numbers, they always quote the HIGH numbers just like strippers, but most of them get $100-$200. They put themselves in bad positions. Over time the prostitute IS the wolf, as she has "thugs" and "criminals" swarming around her protecting her and helping her to get shyt on her clients.
This is true. More expensive means less traffic and less likely to bump into another client walking in or out (instant buzzkill) to remind you that it is too disgusting for someone of your caliber.
 

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Well said brother, our guy here must've been drunk when she wrote this. Anywho, a girl be into some spiritual stuff she's weird, she's not, she's too basic I mean goddamm... This boys be weirdos on the low.

By the way, yoga girls, "spiritual girls" all that be real time freaks in the bed. If you know you know. Dont worry playboy let her go another man will clap those cheeks happily
That’s funny, sounds like drunk thoughts and humor.

Both of the things you mention are tools for personal development. It’s rare, at least for me, to engage with women who aren’t into some form of consciousness expanding activity.
 

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This is true. More expensive means less traffic and less likely to bump into another client walking in or out (instant buzzkill) to remind you that it is too disgusting for someone of your caliber.
Correction. Criminals? Thugs and criminals....? You wouldnt believe me, but the policeman is heavily invested.
 

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Correction. Criminals? Thugs and criminals....? You wouldnt believe me, but the policeman is heavily invested.
The policeman concept is exactly the bait that lead me to visit that escort. It became effectively illegal to buy sex in Canada on midnight of December 6, 2014, so I visited an escort at around 11:00 pm, about an hour before the law came into effect. It was a panic buy. I figure it was better to do this when it was legal rather than risk arrest after this becomes illegal within an hour. 6 years later I realized all of this was in my mind and the police still have not enforced anything with this new law since they have adopted a more targeted approach to go after sex trafficking of minors or where someone is blowing the whistle about a bad operation. There was no further panic buys since that time. All experience that I have in this regard is almost mainly based on this one encounter 6 years ago. There was a woman operating it, no men around other than an old guy that crossed me while I was leaving the place.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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