"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pasionless people?

sosousage

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ive noticed there are 4 kinds of people:

people with passion
OR
people with friends
OR
people with both
OR
people with nothing


apparently my parents have no passions at all especially my mum.

dad is spending his days on tv and mom is listening to some youtube horoscopes all the time and checking pictures on facebook that are boring af and she saw them 20 times.

seems like shes doing it for any tiny bit of dopamine she can get.. even if it actually ruins her mood in the long run..


they dont really have friends nor passions. only getting happiness/dopamine from tv/phone then getting to toxic job. especially my mom's job is toxic

i kind of feel sorry for them




also i dont understand how people can have no passions? I know a lot of people who have friends, but who have ZERO passions. they just follow the group leader and do whatever he suggests AND EVEN INHERIT THEIR PERSONALITIES FROM HIM WTF lol..

but they have zero hobbies or interests and if you left them alone they would play games (out of boredom not out of fascination) or get bored af

(its also worth mentioning if u askd them anything they would answer sameway their group leader thinks)


majority of people try to get girl asap and marry/move in asap and then their life is just job>sex>tv (or replace tv with meeting friends if they have them)
it is kind of astonishing from my perspective becuz i have many passions
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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job = food+shelter
sex = sex/procreation
together = group

these are the 3 most primal instincts of humans.
life is just job>sex>tv
 
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