"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Even the Escorts are a pain

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When I just can’t take it anymore and I’m sick and tired of the woman chase game I’ll hit up an escort. Usually about once or twice a year.

I am a good looking guy in very good shape and I work hard on it. I cannot believe that I just got rejected by an escort before we ever even met. We texted, setup a time, etc. she cancels saying I’m not her type?? Say what? We aren’t dating sweets.

Now I have experienced the highestblebdl of rejection ever!

in general these escorts are flakes and screwed up in the head. Lots of issues, what do you expect. But geez. Guess I’ll goto a strip clinic.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When I just can’t take it anymore and I’m sick and tired of the woman chase game I’ll hit up an escort. Usually about once or twice a year.

I am a good looking guy in very good shape and I work hard on it. I cannot believe that I just got rejected by an escort before we ever even met. We texted, setup a time, etc. she cancels saying I’m not her type?? Say what? We aren’t dating sweets.

Now I have experienced the highestblebdl of rejection ever!

in general these escorts are flakes and screwed up in the head. Lots of issues, what do you expect. But geez. Guess I’ll goto a strip clinic.
You got rejected by an escort and you are not even Black. I thought escorts liked White people because they usually have money and like to spend it. Did she have no blacks on her ad? Maybe you have too much of a tan and she thought you were Mexican. Look pale and dye your hear blonde and weat blue contact lenses to look nordic so you have an easier time next time.

(Intended to be satirical. Dont take post seriously).
 

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Nope. Clean cut white guy here in California USA. and I had sent her a photo. She later said I’m too masculine, too muscular? Omg ! I have hit an all time new level of rejection and yes I’m laughing.
I’d post a photo but system won’t allow.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Never gone the escort route myself, but from the little time I’ve looked into it the ones around here are crackheads. Or the ones that are “passing through” want like $400 for 30 mins.lol Escort pvssy is as much trouble as regular pvssy.
 

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The reason a lot of escort ads say no black men is because they've had bad experiences such as being attacked, raped, robbed, beaten, locked in a bathroom, held at gunpoint, etc.
Isn't it white privilege then that you are not blamed for something your neighbour did to someone else because you have the same skin colour? When a white person does the same things you describe then the individual is judged as crazy or a stalker but you don't have nothing to do with that. If a black person does the same thing then every black person is to blame? How is that fair?

FrichardtheRog said:
I know this because I've asked them. Don't kill the messenger.
They are giving you an answer that you want to hear. Just like police give answers like "they feared for their life" that the public want to hear before they murder an unarmed black person in cold blood. You think people will just admit they are racist and say they don't deal with N-words? The more likely reason is that a hor is like a public washroom. Some white racist customers don't like the idea of sharing their washroom with blacks and she'll lose out on their business, or too many blacks frequenting an area will invite too much racist police attention and increase the chance of police cracking down on the establishment. Now, I can get the last reason as a valid explanation, but the police would be more of a threat since the operation is illegal rather than blacks.
 

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Nope. Clean cut white guy here in California USA. and I had sent her a photo. She later said I’m too masculine, too muscular? Omg ! I have hit an all time new level of rejection and yes I’m laughing.
I’d post a photo but system won’t allow.
So you were treated like a black person. Now you know how it feels to be discriminated against.
 

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Okay ladies. KNOCK IT OFF! if you wanna start a discussion on all that, go start your own thread.

not sure if one single guy posting has actually seen escorts here in USA.

Anyway, seeing escorts and strippers is supposed to be easy and the outcome is guaranteed. this experience is just hilarious.

Moral of the story——- all women are a HUGE pain in the ass and that’s reality.
 

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You don't seem to care at all about the innocent girls being beaten and robbed.
So you are saying that white guys don't beat or rob innocent girls or it is okay if they do it. Maybe I can call you Ted Bundy because have the same complexion as him.

Typical KKK logic. Lynch black people to protect white women. You want to associate yourself with the KKK then go ahead because that's their core belief. Ever see "Birth of the Nation" 1915? Same old lies on film which inspired race riots.

FrichardTheRog said:
You're not the sharpest knife in the drawer. I already know there's no point in conversing with you.
Yet you are.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Okay ladies. KNOCK IT OFF! if you wanna start a discussion on all that, go start your own thread.

not sure if one single guy posting has actually seen escorts here in USA.
I've seen them in Canada.

John9999 said:
Anyway, seeing escorts and strippers is supposed to be easy and the outcome is guaranteed. this experience is just hilarious.
So try another one. You have oneitis over an escort or something? Thought there was plenty to choose from. The point is variety and in demand.

John9999 said:
Moral of the story——- all women are a HUGE pain in the ass and that’s reality.
Not if you are kissing it while she's sucking your c0ck. That was my experience with the last escort I dealt with. The first one almost let me stick it in her fat juicy ass but I was too scared to allow that to happen.

I don't know about your reality, but that's not my reality. December 4 & 5, 2014.
 

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I hear ya @corrector,

Where do these other people get their data from?


Anytime the news is on and a white man is on the back drop, you just know that 90% of the time... it's a report about some white on white crime or other criminal activity.

And if a black man is on the back drop, chances are he was handed the keys to the city.

As a white man, I'd sure hate to be lost in some white suburban neighborhood at 3:00 AM. --- I'd probably never make it out alive.

If I was lost in a low income black neighborhood, I'd sure feel a lot safer. Surely, someone would invite me in for some crumpets and tea.
 

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You must be doing it wrong then.

Best place I've ever been is Antwerp, Belgium. They have window girls just like in Amsterdam, but they only want 50eur ($55) and they're hot as fvck. Most of them are HB8+ from Romania and Bulgaria.
Yeah, American hookers are expen$ive!
 

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I was just turned down by an escort in India because I was white. You don't see me complaining or trying to suggest genocide against Indians because of it like you do.
I never suggested genocide against Indians or genocide against anyone. See you are putting words into my mouth that I never said. If you are doing that then obviously you are hearing something I'm not saying and are delusional.

FrichardtheFrog said:
You are weird, inexperienced, and make everything about race so you have something to cry about.
Yet you are the one that went to jail. Another post you wrote you said if an escort did not provide service you paid for that you would beat her up (ie. took your money but put a bunch of restrictions). You must be violent if you went to jail.

FrichardtheFrog said:
If these certain escorts have made the determination that it is beneficial to their own safety to make a certain decision, who the fvck are you to tell them they should do otherwise?
That's a cop-out.

FrichardtheFrog said:
Has your weak a$$ ever been held at gunpoint and robbed?
So you are saying that white people do not use guns or rob other people?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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@corrector

Thanks for handing me a "like" on my posting above.

I'm sorry to break it to you, but I was being facetious.

If you didn't catch the humor/irony , then perhaps you are a liability to your cause?
 

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And, btw, a lot of their ads say...

"No black men under 40"

What does that tell you?
Or why not just focus on the ones who don't mention it at all?
Some ads do that, but not all of them. Many do say no blacks period.

FrichardtheFrog said:
You've posted your own story about seeing escorts, so obviously it's not stopping you.
It's Black History month. So, escorts have to be looked at right?

I never said ALL escorts are discriminatory. I don't know if I would be discriminated against an escort that says 'no blacks' since I'm not clearly black either. However, if I were to see an escort, God forbid, I would not deliberately target ads saying 'no blacks' as my first choice, maybe as a second or third, and at that, the escort would have to be non-white. I think I could pass for white since my complexion is too near-white and I have a white name but it's not something that I would play with in a hypothetical escort visit, if I'm already in pins and needles about dealing with escorts in principle. I'd be more worried about what God thinks about this and how I stand with God, and the demonic realm than this side issue.
 

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@corrector

Thanks for handing me a "like" on my posting above.

I'm sorry to break it to you, but I was being facetious.

If you didn't catch the humor/irony , then perhaps you are a liability to your cause?
This thread is talking about escorts, not race issues though. Are you trying to hijack this thread?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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