"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Even the Escorts are a pain

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When I just can’t take it anymore and I’m sick and tired of the woman chase game I’ll hit up an escort. Usually about once or twice a year.

I am a good looking guy in very good shape and I work hard on it. I cannot believe that I just got rejected by an escort before we ever even met. We texted, setup a time, etc. she cancels saying I’m not her type?? Say what? We aren’t dating sweets.

Now I have experienced the highestblebdl of rejection ever!

in general these escorts are flakes and screwed up in the head. Lots of issues, what do you expect. But geez. Guess I’ll goto a strip clinic.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When I just can’t take it anymore and I’m sick and tired of the woman chase game I’ll hit up an escort. Usually about once or twice a year.

I am a good looking guy in very good shape and I work hard on it. I cannot believe that I just got rejected by an escort before we ever even met. We texted, setup a time, etc. she cancels saying I’m not her type?? Say what? We aren’t dating sweets.

Now I have experienced the highestblebdl of rejection ever!

in general these escorts are flakes and screwed up in the head. Lots of issues, what do you expect. But geez. Guess I’ll goto a strip clinic.
You got rejected by an escort and you are not even Black. I thought escorts liked White people because they usually have money and like to spend it. Did she have no blacks on her ad? Maybe you have too much of a tan and she thought you were Mexican. Look pale and dye your hear blonde and weat blue contact lenses to look nordic so you have an easier time next time.

(Intended to be satirical. Dont take post seriously).
 

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Nope. Clean cut white guy here in California USA. and I had sent her a photo. She later said I’m too masculine, too muscular? Omg ! I have hit an all time new level of rejection and yes I’m laughing.
I’d post a photo but system won’t allow.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Never gone the escort route myself, but from the little time I’ve looked into it the ones around here are crackheads. Or the ones that are “passing through” want like $400 for 30 mins.lol Escort pvssy is as much trouble as regular pvssy.
 

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The reason a lot of escort ads say no black men is because they've had bad experiences such as being attacked, raped, robbed, beaten, locked in a bathroom, held at gunpoint, etc.
Isn't it white privilege then that you are not blamed for something your neighbour did to someone else because you have the same skin colour? When a white person does the same things you describe then the individual is judged as crazy or a stalker but you don't have nothing to do with that. If a black person does the same thing then every black person is to blame? How is that fair?

FrichardtheRog said:
I know this because I've asked them. Don't kill the messenger.
They are giving you an answer that you want to hear. Just like police give answers like "they feared for their life" that the public want to hear before they murder an unarmed black person in cold blood. You think people will just admit they are racist and say they don't deal with N-words? The more likely reason is that a hor is like a public washroom. Some white racist customers don't like the idea of sharing their washroom with blacks and she'll lose out on their business, or too many blacks frequenting an area will invite too much racist police attention and increase the chance of police cracking down on the establishment. Now, I can get the last reason as a valid explanation, but the police would be more of a threat since the operation is illegal rather than blacks.
 

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Nope. Clean cut white guy here in California USA. and I had sent her a photo. She later said I’m too masculine, too muscular? Omg ! I have hit an all time new level of rejection and yes I’m laughing.
I’d post a photo but system won’t allow.
So you were treated like a black person. Now you know how it feels to be discriminated against.
 

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Okay ladies. KNOCK IT OFF! if you wanna start a discussion on all that, go start your own thread.

not sure if one single guy posting has actually seen escorts here in USA.

Anyway, seeing escorts and strippers is supposed to be easy and the outcome is guaranteed. this experience is just hilarious.

Moral of the story——- all women are a HUGE pain in the ass and that’s reality.
 

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You don't seem to care at all about the innocent girls being beaten and robbed.
So you are saying that white guys don't beat or rob innocent girls or it is okay if they do it. Maybe I can call you Ted Bundy because have the same complexion as him.

Typical KKK logic. Lynch black people to protect white women. You want to associate yourself with the KKK then go ahead because that's their core belief. Ever see "Birth of the Nation" 1915? Same old lies on film which inspired race riots.

FrichardTheRog said:
You're not the sharpest knife in the drawer. I already know there's no point in conversing with you.
Yet you are.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay ladies. KNOCK IT OFF! if you wanna start a discussion on all that, go start your own thread.

not sure if one single guy posting has actually seen escorts here in USA.
I've seen them in Canada.

John9999 said:
Anyway, seeing escorts and strippers is supposed to be easy and the outcome is guaranteed. this experience is just hilarious.
So try another one. You have oneitis over an escort or something? Thought there was plenty to choose from. The point is variety and in demand.

John9999 said:
Moral of the story——- all women are a HUGE pain in the ass and that’s reality.
Not if you are kissing it while she's sucking your c0ck. That was my experience with the last escort I dealt with. The first one almost let me stick it in her fat juicy ass but I was too scared to allow that to happen.

I don't know about your reality, but that's not my reality. December 4 & 5, 2014.
 

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I hear ya @corrector,

Where do these other people get their data from?


Anytime the news is on and a white man is on the back drop, you just know that 90% of the time... it's a report about some white on white crime or other criminal activity.

And if a black man is on the back drop, chances are he was handed the keys to the city.

As a white man, I'd sure hate to be lost in some white suburban neighborhood at 3:00 AM. --- I'd probably never make it out alive.

If I was lost in a low income black neighborhood, I'd sure feel a lot safer. Surely, someone would invite me in for some crumpets and tea.
 

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You must be doing it wrong then.

Best place I've ever been is Antwerp, Belgium. They have window girls just like in Amsterdam, but they only want 50eur ($55) and they're hot as fvck. Most of them are HB8+ from Romania and Bulgaria.
Yeah, American hookers are expen$ive!
 

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I was just turned down by an escort in India because I was white. You don't see me complaining or trying to suggest genocide against Indians because of it like you do.
I never suggested genocide against Indians or genocide against anyone. See you are putting words into my mouth that I never said. If you are doing that then obviously you are hearing something I'm not saying and are delusional.

FrichardtheFrog said:
You are weird, inexperienced, and make everything about race so you have something to cry about.
Yet you are the one that went to jail. Another post you wrote you said if an escort did not provide service you paid for that you would beat her up (ie. took your money but put a bunch of restrictions). You must be violent if you went to jail.

FrichardtheFrog said:
If these certain escorts have made the determination that it is beneficial to their own safety to make a certain decision, who the fvck are you to tell them they should do otherwise?
That's a cop-out.

FrichardtheFrog said:
Has your weak a$$ ever been held at gunpoint and robbed?
So you are saying that white people do not use guns or rob other people?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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@corrector

Thanks for handing me a "like" on my posting above.

I'm sorry to break it to you, but I was being facetious.

If you didn't catch the humor/irony , then perhaps you are a liability to your cause?
 

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And, btw, a lot of their ads say...

"No black men under 40"

What does that tell you?
Or why not just focus on the ones who don't mention it at all?
Some ads do that, but not all of them. Many do say no blacks period.

FrichardtheFrog said:
You've posted your own story about seeing escorts, so obviously it's not stopping you.
It's Black History month. So, escorts have to be looked at right?

I never said ALL escorts are discriminatory. I don't know if I would be discriminated against an escort that says 'no blacks' since I'm not clearly black either. However, if I were to see an escort, God forbid, I would not deliberately target ads saying 'no blacks' as my first choice, maybe as a second or third, and at that, the escort would have to be non-white. I think I could pass for white since my complexion is too near-white and I have a white name but it's not something that I would play with in a hypothetical escort visit, if I'm already in pins and needles about dealing with escorts in principle. I'd be more worried about what God thinks about this and how I stand with God, and the demonic realm than this side issue.
 

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@corrector

Thanks for handing me a "like" on my posting above.

I'm sorry to break it to you, but I was being facetious.

If you didn't catch the humor/irony , then perhaps you are a liability to your cause?
This thread is talking about escorts, not race issues though. Are you trying to hijack this thread?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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