Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Maybe if it was la or nyc it would be different, but heck out my 60 mile region on tinder out of those 300 women 260 of them I wouldn't even consider plowing. Most I see in tinder are fat, have nose rings, covered in tats, bad teeth and overall just look gross.my opinion:Girls on Tinder do smash. A lot!
yeah hypergamy is an awful thing, it worked it old society when women had less rights and more men where capable of having something to bargain...www.girlsaskguys.com
Yeah I'm really surprised he and the other incel trolls haven't been banned yet. Really bringing the quality if this great forum down.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Even the 16% is kind of misleading. Sure, 16% of the men may be having any sex at all - but within those 16% there are still the top guys taking the lion's share, it's not an even distribution with a table of equals. It's probably really 5% or so are doing great, 10% are getting by but probably below their own smv, 85% are celibate.
Since you are new here, I will give you a tip you may not yet be aware of. If you repeatedly don't like somebody's post content you can click on their name next to one of their posts, and then click "Ignore". This way you never see their posts. Sort of like your own custom SS experience.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You know how averages work right? Are you making a cheeky reference or are you actually serious?
I mean you're not a chad and have a disability and middle age. So how are you getting all these girls then?
I like the incels. They are the ones shedding light on reality. The blackpill is the last truth you can swallow -it is the final one. Natural selection is real and I agree with much of the philosophy despite not being incel myself
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yeah, I don't understand why people have problem with the original post. This forum has always maintained that the top guys get most of the sex, whether you believe in the 80/20 rule or something similar. That has always been a major tenet of the red pill. The link provided simply provides evidence for that belief. Why is that a problem?
Men shouldn't be complaining, instead you need to adapt and survive in order to thrive.
It's fine to point out reality, but the posting is obviously meant to fan the flames of red pill rage and there's nothing but bitterness to be found going down that road.
I found the original post informative. It provides scientific (or at least semi-scientific) proof for what we knew all along.
I'm still confused. I'm not knocking you, but you're middle aged, have a visible disability, etc. everything that usually goes against a man that is talked about on here and yet you get girls more than anyone on this site despite being older and physically disabled.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.