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Feminism is mens fault/ No Fap

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I have a good friend. I went out with him and his gf the other night. I hardly ever go out anymore. My friends gf was very hot in her prime. She is hitting the wall now though.

When she gets drunk she goes full blown ballistic on this fool. She hits him, yells at him, the cops come, she is hysterical. I am pretty sure she is borderline.

I figured out why he stays though. It is because of her sex. I once heard them having sex and it was the craziest freakiest stuff I had ever heard. No one has probably ever fu*ked him like that.

This dude was a stone cold white boy player. He had game and slayed a lot of chicks. I never in a million years would have thought that he would be in this position. He used to be so dark triad with these hoes. I think he just ran into that one fire vagina that got him hooked.

You should have seen the look on his face when the cops showed up ( 2nd time in 6 months ). He looked so defeated.

This is what happens when you let puzzy rule you. This is an extreme example but we all do it to one extent or another.

We dont call out women on bad behavior because of our own over sexuality. We think we are winning when we are banging all these chicks. Nope. We are not winning. We are more deeply ensnaring ourselves to the addiction of sex and vagina.
 

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Numbers 2&3 are irrelevant, if you're doing the right thing. #1 is true. Been there. Been there with the man begging me to get her off him, too. You do what you gotta do. "If you like getting your a55 beat, missy, then keep the drama off the streets..."
I hear that
 

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The current state of women is the fault of men. We let our sexuality rule us. We forgot to be dominant over these women. We let them get away with anything because we are slaves to sex. I have been doing No Fap for a while. It has helped me break my addiction to female sexuality. The power of vagina has become less and less. I can more clearly set boundaries on the females in my life because their one trump card of sexuality has no hold over me.

A general principle of the universe states that how people behave towards you is a reflection of how you feel about yourself. We allow disrespect by not walking away. Men went along with this govt sponsored feminist/ free love movement because we thought it would get us more sex. It ended up destroying everything. If we had taken control of our sex drive and put principles over pu**y, then we would not be in this situation.

We are over sexualized in the United States. This over sexualization is making us vulnerable. We need to gain our power back. No fap is one of many ways to do this.
So now instead of being just no-sex, you are now no-sex & no-fap. Wonderful ... :rolleyes:
 

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The current state of women is the fault of men. We let our sexuality rule us. We forgot to be dominant over these women. We let them get away with anything because we are slaves to sex. I have been doing No Fap for a while. It has helped me break my addiction to female sexuality. The power of vagina has become less and less. I can more clearly set boundaries on the females in my life because their one trump card of sexuality has no hold over me.

A general principle of the universe states that how people behave towards you is a reflection of how you feel about yourself. We allow disrespect by not walking away. Men went along with this govt sponsored feminist/ free love movement because we thought it would get us more sex. It ended up destroying everything. If we had taken control of our sex drive and put principles over pu**y, then we would not be in this situation.

We are over sexualized in the United States. This over sexualization is making us vulnerable. We need to gain our power back. No fap is one of many ways to do this.

I was thinking what a fine piece this OP is until I arrived at the part of No Fap.
 

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It's funny, but I never had a man complain that I saved him from disaster. I guess it's ok to rescue someone you don't wanna f uck? Yeah, it's pathetic, if the only reason you ever help someone is that you're hoping to get laid, but I sometimes wonder whether these guys always b itching about White Knighting would ever help anyone. I mean, clearly, if they saw a pretty young girl getting gangraped in an alley, they'd keep walking, because...white knighting. But, would the same hold true for a 90 year old woman or a 9 year old little girl? Would they help another man who was being murdered?
You got it all confused. I think everyone should try to help the less fortunate or those who need help. Animals included.

If a hot girl actually really needs help....sincerely needs help... then ofcourse you should help her just like you would anyone else.

But there are so many guys who fake help and even stage/create problems or desperately look for them just so they can help an attractive female or boost themselves up in ones eyes and there are so many who will try to make another guy look bad or even get violent with him in the image that he is doing it for the good of the girl he just has a hard on for in the process of doing so.

White knights are the most disgusting creatures on the planet. It's a mindset not based on single actions but inner motivations. If you sincerely like helping people on an equal basis then you are not a white knight.
 

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Numbers 2&3 are irrelevant, if you're doing the right thing. #1 is true. Been there. Been there with the man begging me to get her off him, too. You do what you gotta do. "If you like getting your a55 beat, missy, then keep the drama off the streets..."
Don't ever poke your nose into a domestic dispute man unless a life is in danger ofcourse.

1) The girl is not a victim. She chooses him as a bf.

2) The girl will have loyalty to him not you if sh$t goes south with the law.

3) Domestic disputes are no one else's business but the people involved in the relationship.

4) It's simp behavior and extremely foolish.
 

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So now instead of being just no-sex, you are now no-sex & no-fap. Wonderful ... :rolleyes:
Hahah I know it sounds insane. It is often the stuff that sounds crazy that have the most truth in it. It is very difficult to be just a minimal masturbator. Masturbation is not good thing. We have been lied to by the mainstream narrative once again. Napoleon Hill the Author of Think and Grow Rich heavily advocated keeping your male sexually energy and transmusting it.

The Movie Don Juan with Jason Gordon Levit ( Scarlett Johnasen was in it) was a NoFap movie. All I am saying is try it for 40 days before you knock it. Most men on here could not even do 30 days because we are slaves to our sex drives.

Why do you think porn is so free. Its because they want men worshiping the female and wasting their energy.
 

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I have a good friend. I went out with him and his gf the other night. I hardly ever go out anymore. My friends gf was very hot in her prime. She is hitting the wall now though.

When she gets drunk she goes full blown ballistic on this fool. She hits him, yells at him, the cops come, she is hysterical. I am pretty sure she is borderline.

I figured out why he stays though. It is because of her sex. I once heard them having sex and it was the craziest freakiest stuff I had ever heard. No one has probably ever fu*ked him like that.

This dude was a stone cold white boy player. He had game and slayed a lot of chicks. I never in a million years would have thought that he would be in this position. He used to be so dark triad with these hoes. I think he just ran into that one fire vagina that got him hooked.

You should have seen the look on his face when the cops showed up ( 2nd time in 6 months ). He looked so defeated.

This is what happens when you let puzzy rule you. This is an extreme example but we all do it to one extent or another.

We dont call out women on bad behavior because of our own over sexuality. We think we are winning when we are banging all these chicks. Nope. We are not winning. We are more deeply ensnaring ourselves to the addiction of sex and vagina.

He will be dumped sooner or later. No woman can respect a man who let's her beat him and degrade him like that. He needs to ditch her asap. Violent women are the worst. He might as well go bang a tranny.
 

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Sure, it definitely makes our standards go way up beyond what they should be, and most importantly puts a premium on a slvtty seductive personality (aka the worst succubi lol). You ever run into a woman of high character and think "wow I wish I was attracted to her?" The women I like recreate "the pornstar experience", otherwise I get so bored.
Exactly......it makes us look for the wrong things in a woman. Instead of her character we are primarily looking at her sexuality. There is nothing wrong with wanting a hot chick but there has to be balance. We are so hyper sexualized in the West and we dont even know it. Advertisers have been using sex to sell things to us since we were children, most of us grew up with free porn, you dont think these things have had an effect on us? It makes us put a premium on slutty seductive behavior. That is a great way of putting it.

NoFap is basically just a hard reset on our sex drives. It doesn't have to be permanent. I promise that if a man can go 60 days NoFap he will never want to go back. It is a huge difference in how you feel as a man.
 

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He will be dumped sooner or later. No woman can respect a man who let's her beat him and degrade him like that. He needs to ditch her asap. Violent women are the worst. He might as well go bang a tranny.
Yes man I totally agree. The respect/ relationship is gone once they start to hit you and degrade you. She is literally begging him to put her in her place. It is similar to the Johnny Depp situation.
 

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Domestic disputes happen in domiciles. If you bring your personal drama into my rhealm, I'm not having it.

That's just ridiculous man. No your lane and stay in it. You will get in trouble one day with that mindset, especially if you go overseas.
 

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If you're arguing, I'm just going to tell you to take it somewhere else. If you're "fighting," you just fuc ked everybody.

People are poking their noses in your personal business, when they send the cops to your house, when you're arguing with your wife, not when you're disrupting their business, or actually assaulting someone on their property. You need to lose the Incel-think.

You are seriously advising to risk getting arrested and possibly in a life threatening altercation (any fight someone can fall over hit their head on concrete then you are double ****ed charged with a homicide) over someone else's business?

What....just because they made some noise in public?

I don't know what to tell you man. You are obviously the incel here.......it's total simp behavior on your part.

You must be pretty young and naive not to realize how foolish your little Captain America/Robocop act really is.
 
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You have no clue who I am, but I wouldn't be surprised if I'm old enough to be your grandfather, the way you talk.

I try to imagine you speaking those words, but all I hear is p ussy farts. You are using incel words . The language of excuses.

But, I'm not telling YOU to do anything. I'm only telling you what I'll do, if you bring your drama to my domain. Maybe you would prefer I just call some uniforms to handle, and you get locked up? Either way, you will be ceasing the commotion and leaving my property.
***** farts? The real pussies are the ones like you. I pretty much grew up fighting and have been locked up more than once because of it.

Anyone talking about engaging in crap like that over a domestic dispute between strangers in public is either a simp or a stupid kid trying to play mr tough guy plain and simple.

You do what you want, but I'm entitled to my opinion about it. Simp behavior.
 

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And how do I know you're a p ussy? Because everything is a domestic dispute with you incel kids, the one dispute you're always supposed to stay out of, the perfect excuse for cowardice. When asked to consider any other scenario, your kind always reverts back to the domestic disturbance. It's your default argument
I would only intervene if it was something completely defenseless like a kid he was kicking the crap out of or even a small dog or cat. Otherwise it's not my business. Women bear the responsibility of being with men like that. There are no victims in that scenario.
 

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Im not so sure this is salvageable in its current format. A brief study of Roman Empires history can be an eye opener.
Hey Stringpuller can you please elaborate on what you mean? I would argue that the fall of the Roman Empire correlated with sexual decadence and hedonism. I could be mistaken because I am not a historian.

My point is that sex is okay in moderation. Masturbating to porn is not okay in moderation. Mastubation to porn keeps men in this cycle of putting vagina on a pedestal. Women want us to be over sexualized so they can have more control over us.
 

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A lot like what you see today to be honest. Not very encouraging.
On the subject though i came to realize yes fapping is not productive so i just try to use my dik for its intended purpose. Vaginas.
I figure with all the different beliefs in the world it just seemed the right way to be.
100% man. Dycks are for vaginas. So we are agreeing.
 

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Bro what are you talking about? You say you have never heard of puzzy controlling men? Stop it bruh. There are whole songs about this. The song The Power of P.U.S.S.Y by Jay-z and R.Kelly. You never heard of the phrase " puzzy pass or vagina pass". Or how about the Trojan War that was started over puzzy.

I respect you as a poster but I feel like you are intentionally being obstinate and intellectually dishonest. Please dont piss me off. I want this to be a constructive debate brother.

If puzzy was not the main motivator for most males you would not even be on this site. This is a damn seduction site and you are on it. That proves that puzzy at least at one point controlled you too.
Just don't understand how a dude can allow p ussy to control him like that. It's not like it's a rare item.. It's a commodity. Not trying to"piss you off", just do not understand what you are trying to portray. It goes back to a dude's will and control of their own life. I'm here to give my .02 cents. It is not nor has ever been my main priority in life. If dudes stop thinking that ladies are their main priority, they will have a lot easier time in obtaining them. People are attracted to what they can't have, so switch the tables and have them come to you. Trust when I say, it works in real life.
 

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Men are programmed to be horny but a mans greatest asset is his discipline and his logic. We unlike women, are not slaves to our biology.
That is true, and it is also an asset most men will ever consider, as that requires delayed gratification, something that is utterly foreign to most people.

Similar obesity rates among both men and women would indicate men are just as much slaves to our biology as women.

I do agree with you that it is very difficult to ignore our sexual urges.
Delayed gratification is pretty impossible for most people.

Most people are overweight.

Most people have tons of credit card debt.

Most men will take piece they can get.

Which means if you can manage to delay gratification, you can get a pretty good advantage.
 

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I agree Rick but your talking decades of programming. The unlearning takes time to unwind.
I guess I missed that programming in school. When I girl said no, I just moved on to the next one. I do not recall ever chasing after da pus if it was denied to me. Maybe it's me. I am not normal.
 

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I agree. But you cant have self respect if you are also a slave to your lust. A poster on here used to have a signature that saids something to the effect of " you are a slave to what you can not say no to". You cant just dominate a woman but then be addicted to her sex. Who is really the dominant one in that case?

This is why NoFap is so crucial. It teaches you sexual discipline.
Well yeah, but that’s kinda my point. If your dignity and sense of pride in yourself outweighs your lust, you are no slave to any woman.
 
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