wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Girls get angry in these cases, because you've foiled their plans to keep you as a subordinate assworshipper,
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
LJBF before even dating - any thoughts?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Which is all the friendzone is. You’re there to do nothing but favors and pine over a girl you’re never going to have. So yeah, you’re basically in a situation where you’re expected to give relationship effort without being in a relationship and getting none of the benefits of a relationship. Sorry but I dint want to meet any of her friends, I’ll go fish in another pond.lol
MatureDJ
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These toxic men are Chads; you are not. But don't worry - after she gets knocked up, she will understand what she's been missing by rejecting you.
Nah, not anymore. Women aren’t dating down these days. Even mid to late 30’s still think they can pull Chad because they shacked up with one for a year in some faux-relationship. What that means is they are too stupid to see that Chad was just using them for some year sex while they thought it was “true love”. They will pine for Chad and most hold on to that last go round they had even though it meant nothing to Chad. “But we were in a serious relationship for a year!” they’ll cry, but the relationship was just something to pass the time for Chad. Average Beta Bob will come along with his Beta Bux and will want to date her but she will friend zoned him while spending his beta bux, all the while still pining for the Chad she had her last year long “romance” with. I’m seeing this all the time now, women approaching the wall and even post wall women are refusing to lower their standards even with two bastard kids in tow. They think they deserve Chad because Chad made them their move in sex slave for a year.lolThese toxic men are Chads; you are not. But don't worry - after she gets knocked up, she will understand what she's been missing by rejecting you.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Everything starts with the chick... if she isn't 'feeling it' you have nothing to work with. This happens to all of us... happens to me frequently. Anyone that tells you a man can make any woman attracted to him is living in a fantasy. Nothing wrong with having female friends, I have several... but never hang around hoping you will change their minds... If you can't control your emotions then you should not try being friends with chicks.... because it will cause you to lose opportunities with chicks you do have a chance with. On rare occasions things flip with female friends, but when it happens it has nothing to do with your actions.
More to the point I think it actually degrades your life. In my case, hadn't I mentioned that I liked the girl to her girl friend, she wouldn't have told her, and none of this beta/AFC stuff would've happened. Actually, I think that's the root cause and I'll never ever trust chicks again. But still learning.