mrgoodstuff
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The guys that do it right do the same things right back. Its alot of trouble to deal with that type of female.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The meme of Beta Orbiter is now termed "backburner relationship"
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Not totally.. She only wants to be validated with the man she wants. Not entirely impossible. Ive seen it.
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I’m sure she’s out the somewhere for you then.
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Hahahaa fvckin rare dude.. But ill never be comfortable around insecure chickI’m sure she’s out the somewhere for you then.
flowtheory
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Women who are with their ideal men still seek validation from every other avenue. It’s just how they are. Accept that as rule #1. If you believe a woman only seeks validation from her main man, you learned from a Disney film
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Guys set your standard higher, its understandable most gurls are like that, i say most not all, and like many gadgets you buy from a store its rare that it might not get broken.
flowtheory
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It has nothing to do with standards. This is just how women are. Women value others’ opinions as it shapes and informs their social status. Garnering validation from men sets her status higher among other women which then opens her up to higher status males. Enter: hypergamy.
Her seeking and looking for validation has nothing to do with the other men; it has to do with her own self and nothing but that. They are self interested creatures.
Women need to know they’re desired by a lot of men. Not just one man. Even if she catches the TOP alpha in the world; man of dreams, she would still care about being attractive to others.
I don’t even know how this can be refuted.
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Validation that she earn is just fine, workplace, family members, hobbies, etc.. no way i was hanging around with girls have a lots of guy friends. Fvcking nonsense
flowtheory
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It’s wrong based on what society has deemed acceptable morally — which has been put in place through the doctrine of Christianity. But biology trumps all and we all know how biology works. If you don’t.. go watch people in a bar. Or any social scene.
Most things gas are about power. Most humans are seeking safety and abundance above all.
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You just define greed and insanity, thats what most people are.. Quality oh my man its hard to get nowdays.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.