Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
This seems dangerously low, during a cut I eat about 2500 - 2700 calories. How tall are you, what is your body fat? How often do you exercise? Do you sit for you occupation or do you need to walk about? This all matters.consuming 1300 calories or less
No. Overtime, fat will turn into muscle or burn away if you are exercising. The only non-heathy way would be by starving yourself or going on a water diet to reach part of your goal. Both, I wouldn't suggest. I recommend a hybrid KETO. I say hybrid as if you do not mix it up a bit, you will develop chronic constipation; which is not fun.1. Cutting from 170 to 155 ( consuming 1300 calories or less )
2. Getting Stronger/building muscle but at MINIMUM maintaining muscle/strength.
Thanks.
Anyone here ever done this? or is this too much
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Agree with other posters... too much at once. Best to not rush these things. If nothing else, going too fast means you set yourself up for a rebound.1. Cutting from 170 to 155 ( consuming 1300 calories or less )
2. Getting Stronger/building muscle but at MINIMUM maintaining muscle/strength.
Thanks.
Anyone here ever done this? or is this too much
I was similar stats and initial goals. It took me couple months only. What I did was increase caloric intake and add protein and do hard sprints for couple hours every other day. When I tried to do it every day, I hurt myself. Lifting only three or four days a week at the same time. It was really grueling. Everything got much stronger and the fat just disapeared, abs popped out, was drinking an insane amount of water, like a camel or elephant. Had to cut the run time some, just could not eat enough. at some times in the morning, the desire to eat was just crazy.1. Cutting from 170 to 155 ( consuming 1300 calories or less )
2. Getting Stronger/building muscle but at MINIMUM maintaining muscle/strength.
Thanks.
Anyone here ever done this? or is this too much
You are doing way to much. I advise 3 days of lifting and 2 day of cardio. I don't know your age, but I assume it to be 30, with the rest of the data you provided you should eat about 2400-2500 during a healthy cut. This is with the 5 days of exercise. Also, don't try and increase strength during a cut, focus on mainting it. Bulking if for strength gains. Last peace of advice, don't cut for more then 3 months, it's too much stress on the body. See attached.i am 5'7 currently at 173.8 and 3 weeks @ 179
i am consuming 1700 calories daily
Getin 6 hours sleep daily + 45 min nap
i sit on pc for most part. I burn 1000 calories on eliptical daily for ALMOST a month now.. i am trying to lose body % from 20 to 13-14 is near term goal. I lift weights every other day on top of the daily 1000 calorie burn on top of the 1700bmr.
ANd it seems i've only lost 6 to 7 lbs..
I am getting stronger..able to to do an extra .5 to 3 reps per week on specific muscles..some musles @ .5 extra rep
Just weigh yourself daily and figure out what maintenance calories is.i am 5'7 currently at 173.8 and 3 weeks @ 179
i am consuming 1700 calories daily
Getin 6 hours sleep daily + 45 min nap
i sit on pc for most part. I burn 1000 calories on eliptical daily for ALMOST a month now.. i am trying to lose body % from 20 to 13-14 is near term goal. I lift weights every other day on top of the daily 1000 calorie burn on top of the 1700bmr.
ANd it seems i've only lost 6 to 7 lbs..
I am getting stronger..able to to do an extra .5 to 3 reps per week on specific muscles..some musles @ .5 extra rep
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
5 days per week of exercise is too much. It means you’re either on steroids or the workouts are too easy.You are doing way to much. I advise 3 days of lifting and 2 day of cardio. I don't know your age, but I assume it to be 30, with the rest of the data you provided you should eat about 2400-2500 during a healthy cut. This is with the 5 days of exercise. Also, don't try and increase strength during a cut, focus on mainting it. Bulking if for strength gains. Last peace of advice, don't cut for more then 3 months, it's too much stress on the body. See attached.
I didn't say he couldn't. I said daily cardio plus lifting every other day was to much. I gave him advice on a healthy cut, if he doesn't want to listen, fine.You *CAN* build muscle and lose fat at the same time.
This is exactly what I suggested him, based on the numbers he gave me.Just weigh yourself daily and figure out what maintenance calories is.
Once you've figured that out, subtract 200 calories. And see what that causes you to lose per week.
I definitely know his plan is UNhealthyNone of us can tell you what 'healthy' is.
Why are you quoting me as if I addressed you when I didn’t?I didn't say he couldn't. I said daily cardio plus lifting every other day was to much. I gave him advice on a healthy cut, if he does want to listen, fine.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I can quote anyone I want to.Why are you quoting me as if I addressed you when I didn’t?
And I never really answered your question. I think for a well executed cut just below a kilo a week is on par, so 0,8-0,9 kilo/week.Is it possible/healthy to lose 2.50 lbs a week by
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.