"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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when calling plate for first time.

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i met this hotie on facebook, we've been chating for a couple days and exchange numbers.
to day i called her and we talk a bit then she say she didn't recognize me. i smiled a bit and told her we will talk later today.
after couple minutes she sends an sms saying she finally recognized me and asked me to call again.
i replied with" thanks, you have to call me as punishment of you asking my number and not save it, see you babe" what do you guys think on my response. did i take the wrong way?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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shes not a plate, you just met (online)
" thanks, you have to call me as punishment of you asking my number and not save it, see you babe"
mistep here.

you should have been more casual/funny to use this kind of line.
now she thinks your a player, and you aren't.

Can I guess... you are from India?
 

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shes not a plate, you just met (online)

mistep here.

you should have been more casual/funny to use this kind of line.
now she thinks your a player, and you aren't.

Can I guess... you are from India?
[not from india.

i think the line worked out of the box even if i derived it wrong. she called after and we talked like 10 min. i had no idea whats going on and i asked her out and she said yes but she came to offer if it wouldn't be better at my place.
i am wondering why she want to come to my place and if its normal since we didn't meet in real life.

]
 

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"i am wondering why she want to come to my place"

because sex might happen and she wont worry about people seeing her

note: out of about the last 20 dates/sex, I have been to "her place" exactly once.
men lead, women follow
women suggest, men shouldn't question
 
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