"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Machine10033

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I’ve been down this road in the past and my only advice is figure out the worst case scenario and if you can live with it then do it!!! The last time I messed around with a married chick I was eating lunch with my CEO. I got a text saying “omg my husband found our messages and he left the house with a shotgun... he’s going to kill himself... “ I literally spit my food into a napkin and turned white as a ghost.... probably the worst feeling I’ve ever had!!!!! That ended it forever.... women have no soul... had her husband killed himself she could eventually rationalize it... and make herself out to be a victim.... me.... I wouldn’t be able to deal with that on my conscience.

Billions of single snatches out there.... don’t create unneeded stress for yourself!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Suave88

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I’ve been down this road in the past and my only advice is figure out the worst case scenario and if you can live with it then do it!!! The last time I messed around with a married chick I was eating lunch with my CEO. I got a text saying “omg my husband found our messages and he left the house with a shotgun... he’s going to kill himself... “ I literally spit my food into a napkin and turned white as a ghost.... probably the worst feeling I’ve ever had!!!!! That ended it forever.... women have no soul... had her husband killed himself she could eventually rationalize it... and make herself out to be a victim.... me.... I wouldn’t be able to deal with that on my conscience.

Billions of single snatches out there.... don’t create unneeded stress for yourself!
Yes, lots of single women, but they hardly hook up. Women spend years on match and even play hard to get games when they meet the right guy.
 

Reyaj

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I am the worst at following up at threads I post apologies once again.

Anyways... nothing happend here. We traded some texts back and forth... I then took a gambit showing her my social proof on social media and that conversely seemed to turn her off. I ended up saying I'd tell her husband she was giving out her number when she goes out and she tried to save face saying he already knew. I am sure I probably scared her, maybe that was a noble act in all this lol Either way don't give a F
 
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