"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you knew anything about feminism from actual research on it you'd know that feminists are not a monolithic entity. They disagree with each other because there are multiple groups of them. For some feminists, feminism means women being able to choose. For others it means women doing what the feminist in question thinks they should.

I guess just trying to be objective on this site will get me labeled as a feminist myself, lol.. but I'll still do it.
 
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Prostitution isn't anything new.

It's been around since the dawn of time.

Even monkeys trade meat for sex.

Another common thing in history is as societies collapse, costs of living goes up, those that can make money through the sex trade.

One of Alexander The Great's underappreciated skills is making sure all his soldiers had plenty of supplies during their march across Asia.

His genius of logistics was equal to that of his battlefield skills.

Part of his logistics included making sure his men had plenty of ladies to choose from after every battle.

Go to any city in the world and you'll find pros.

Close your eyes and dial in any random date on your time machine and go to any city in the world and you'll find pros.

Ain't got nothing to do with feminism or capitalism or liberalism or socialism or DJism.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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taiyuu_otoko said:
Prostitution isn't anything new.

It's been around since the dawn of time.

Even monkeys trade meat for sex.

Another common thing in history is as societies collapse, costs of living goes up, those that can make money through the sex trade.

One of Alexander The Great's underappreciated skills is making sure all his soldiers had plenty of supplies during their march across Asia.

His genius of logistics was equal to that of his battlefield skills.

Part of his logistics included making sure his men had plenty of ladies to choose from after every battle.

Go to any city in the world and you'll find pros.

Close your eyes and dial in any random date on your time machine and go to any city in the world and you'll find pros.

Ain't got nothing to do with feminism or capitalism or liberalism or socialism or DJism.
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Yeah but reality doesnt constitute a strong enough evidence for feminists thats the problem.
 
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Who Dares Win said:
Yeah but reality doesnt constitute a strong enough evidence for feminists thats the problem.
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Reality doesn't constitute a strong enough evidence for anybody.

Everybody is driven by subjective ideas, emotions and desires.
 
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not surprise they are not getting paid the money they want every now this is the next logical step
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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