"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BJP1991

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How do you like to approach women at the gym?

I’ve occasionally got IOI at the gym. Eye contact, then the same girl “coincidentally” ends up working out next to me when I move across the gym.

The only issue I see is that we always have our headphones in (both myself and women at the gym). I also get the impression that many people at the gym just want to get their workout in, and move on with their lives. However I know pickup happens at the gym frequently for some, so im very interested to give it a decent try.

Sometimes, you just know, meaning a girl and you make eye contact, it holds for more than a second, but in the blink of an eye it’s over and I missed my shot. Usually I’m underprepared, focused on my lifts, and blasting tunes.

What do some if you guys recommend for picking up girls while working out or at the gym?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you are good looking enough for her there is no "game". If you are not, then whatever you do probably won't make a difference. She told my acquaintance by herself she'd like to fvck him in the restroom. Told me she had a boyfriend after I talked to her when she giggled at me.

All you need to do is talk to them and escalate until they reject you or have sex with you. They are not stupid nor lack their own sex drive. No special lines or timings or disarmaments needed. If they want you, they will help you and make it easy for you.
 
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Headphones is not an issue. You got IOIs, good enough. Take your ears off, btch. At the gym is even more easier, since it is pure attraction n to the body. She’ll have crazy fun interest won’t let you work? Well you don’t own her sht and can call it quits anytime.
 

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How do you like to approach women at the gym?

I’ve occasionally got IOI at the gym. Eye contact, then the same girl “coincidentally” ends up working out next to me when I move across the gym.
If you don't approach that girl and talk to her then you are retarded. I never get IOIs at the GYM and it's always bad news. I don't have to approach anyone because there is no opportunity as I'm invisible. Misery loves company. If you are too stupid to approach girls that are showing IOIs then you are no better off than I am and are a big joke.

Like to see how people squander away all their opportunities. Really smart.
 
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