“I can pencil you in”

[BJP1991]

Tell her to draw you like one of her french boys. seriously.

Lol - dammit that would be a good response. Another time!

 

[Tilex]

You cold approached a girl at a store. She told you:

- she was single and available,
- she was free in the evening to go on a 1 on 1 single date with you
- she was free every night of the week
- she would down to meet anywhere

What girl, in their right mind, would tell a guy she just met in a store, “I’m free EVERY night this week and am down to meet ANYWHERE?”
Even high class prostitutes getting paid $25,000 a night don’t say that. But a girl you just met a store does?

Sounds suspicious.

But she said she had to "pencil him in", which sounds incongruent and a total contradiction for someone that's free and available every night.

 

[Trump]

But she said she had to "pencil him in", which sounds incongruent and a total contradiction for someone that's free and available every night.

Wasn’t the point.

OP cold approaches a hot girl in a store and she is so struck by his good looks, she immediately discloses all personal information about herself and directly tells him she is “available any and all nights for him?”

Top directors who need female leads in their next movie cannot get eager actresses to say that, but OP can to a girl he cold approaches in broad daylight?

Not only that, OP was smooth enough to cold approach a hot girl, get her to give up all her details for nothing, but then gets completely confused over a simple text she sends him?

His story sounds incongruent and a total contradiction.

 

[BJP1991]

Wasn’t the point.

OP cold approaches a hot girl in a store and she is so struck by his good looks, she immediately discloses all personal information about herself and directly tells him she is “available any and all nights for him?”

Top directors who need female leads in their next movie cannot get eager actresses to say that, but OP can to a girl he cold approaches in broad daylight?

Not only that, OP was smooth enough to cold approach a hot girl, get her to give up all her details for nothing, but then gets completely confused over a simple text she sends him?

His story sounds incongruent and a total contradiction.

Easy easy. You’re out of context. I met her, chatted for 2 minutes, asked for her number to hangout sometime - she gave it to me. I texted her, exchanged one or two brief messages, then asked what her availability was next week/next weekend. She replies, saying she is free all weekend. I selected Friday.

It’s not as over the top as it’s been made out to be. I don’t see the issue.

I’m not going to hit her up for a while. Following normal first date protocol, same as other approaches or OLD first dates.

 

[Visionist]

Exactly, it really isn't that strange. She might have an agenda (looking to rebound from her ex - in that case she could ghost you at any time when he returns) but that's not your concern. So long as she wants to hang out, you hang out and smash.

Don't take it slow with this one. Fūck her on the first date.