“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Women use you to make their bf jealous / breakup
- Thread starter bob2007
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Yeah it happened to me a long time ago. I realized i was the prop when she suddenly vanished and stopped contact. This was back in the day of the answering machine, back around 1992 ish we had been seeing each other for about 3 weeks and she was the type that always returned the phone call within the same day. I am the type where i would only leave 2 messages. If neither got a return phonecall i moved on.
I had left the first message and 3 days later no phone call from her yet, i left message number 2. Again nothing from her a couple couple of days later i heard from an aquantance that she and her ex had got back together. Long story short her and her ex split again and she tried to start something with me again ( i dont know if it was to actually start something with me for real this time or if it was to make her ex jealous again, ) i played dumb and never brought up what had happened months earlier i had no intentions at all to start anything with her, one chance per lifetime she blew hers, i kept telling her for weeks to meet me at this restaurant or this club, and i no showed every time. After the 6th flake on my part she caught on.
I feel like dude 99's story and yours was similar to mine.
But what I'd be really afraid of is, getting nothing from teh girl and then getting the RISK on top of that...
Like if she purposely let a bf see our interactions or dating.
Or if they were to argue and blow up and she'd bring ME into it.
I might've been prop once where the fiance was there and the girl was doing stuff in front of him. And a girl friend of mine spoke out against it publically but comedically. Maybe she was protecting me...
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Master Don Juan
I have been the prop of a woman with a boyfriend.
She would use me to humiliate him, either indirectly with words by things like calling him the "third wheel" through text to me, getting a response, and then showing him the conversation, or directly by being physical with me in front of him. Like when I reclined in a chair at their place with her, him and another girl, the girls both came to rest on me - and she just laid herself right on me, covering me with her body just like the bed cover she also brought over after a while. He asked her to come where he was sitting instead but she wouldn't. Or when she went around flashing her t1ts to a few guys including me at a party, with him in tow and because he was in tow, which was years before the chair thing and I think was during an "argument". She would talk him down when with me and he wasn't there, or even jab him when he was IIRC.
You would have thought she would cheat on him with me, or at least break up with him, but she never did - and now they have two kids. On facebook picture captions she says how much she loves him.
She's a year older than me and her boyfriend is two years younger than her. I met her in school at 16, they'd known each other for a while before that, they then got into a relationship after a while and this stuff started happening. I went NC on her a good while ago because while I always thought she was fun to be with (probably cause she was one of the first girls I really "got to know" in a new phase of life), she was just too manipulative and her being in a relationship gradually deadened the fun. One reason she brought up for her behavior, directly or indirectly (don't remember) was his relation to an ex - but she continued, and indeed did the worst of her behavior toward him with me, long after he had ceased contact with her.
She was also the only child of a mother who raised her, and a father who never wanted to have her and abandoned her before she was born I think it was.
She would use me to humiliate him, either indirectly with words by things like calling him the "third wheel" through text to me, getting a response, and then showing him the conversation, or directly by being physical with me in front of him. Like when I reclined in a chair at their place with her, him and another girl, the girls both came to rest on me - and she just laid herself right on me, covering me with her body just like the bed cover she also brought over after a while. He asked her to come where he was sitting instead but she wouldn't. Or when she went around flashing her t1ts to a few guys including me at a party, with him in tow and because he was in tow, which was years before the chair thing and I think was during an "argument". She would talk him down when with me and he wasn't there, or even jab him when he was IIRC.
You would have thought she would cheat on him with me, or at least break up with him, but she never did - and now they have two kids. On facebook picture captions she says how much she loves him.
She's a year older than me and her boyfriend is two years younger than her. I met her in school at 16, they'd known each other for a while before that, they then got into a relationship after a while and this stuff started happening. I went NC on her a good while ago because while I always thought she was fun to be with (probably cause she was one of the first girls I really "got to know" in a new phase of life), she was just too manipulative and her being in a relationship gradually deadened the fun. One reason she brought up for her behavior, directly or indirectly (don't remember) was his relation to an ex - but she continued, and indeed did the worst of her behavior toward him with me, long after he had ceased contact with her.
She was also the only child of a mother who raised her, and a father who never wanted to have her and abandoned her before she was born I think it was.
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