I sleep less and make more money but get less attention from women

[captain55]

I wake up late these days but I get 8-9 hours of quality sleep. I get a million times more ass than when I was going into the office at 5:30 am every day even though I make 3-4k a month less. Looks go way further than money.

I think so many guys underestimate how important sleep is with women. Without it diet and training mean nothing. Anything less than 6 hours of sleep and I become invisible to women. I get 8 hours plus women throw themselves at me.

I can’t be the only guy here who notices the same?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I wake up late these days but I get 8-9 hours of quality sleep. I get a million times more ass than when I was going into the office at 5:30 am every day even though I make 3-4k a month less. Looks go way further than money.

I think so many guys underestimate how important sleep is with women. Without it diet and training mean nothing. Anything less than 6 hours of sleep and I become invisible to women. I get 8 hours plus women throw themselves at me.

I can’t be the only guy here who notices the same?

Are you more stressed but more focus with the 6 hrs? Are your dont give a **** levels higher and your calmer with the 9 hrs?

 

[redskinsfan92]

Hmm, interesting

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I can’t be the only guy here who notices the same?

I found JRE podcast 1109 or 1111 with neurologist Mathew Walker who specialises in sleeping. He wrote why we sleep. He speaks of threat detection and 1/2 hemispheres of the brain not switching off when not in our bed. It leads to a lack of deep REM sleep.

I read the book. I would say, top 5 maybe top 3 best books i read. My skin, hair, eyes, nsils, etc look 200x better. My output in strength in the gym is a million times better. No brain fog. I have noted 85% decrease in output on a lack of sleep. As in, less than optimal 8 hrs. I have taken a scientific approach to sleep. I have darkened my room. I allocate minimum 8 hrs of sleep. I have since had a series of benchmark performance in doing so. I have noted so much for making the time and doing the work.

Finally, less brain fog, and getting more girls. Spotting IOIs, choosing signals, chicks doing the double take, and eye ****ing. Testosterone levels are optimized. Focus is on point. Sleep is the best medicine.

 

[In2theGame]

More sleep is great for your overall health. It's true that many don't consider this but if anything, It's more than Women, it allows your body and mind to operate at optimal levels.

 

[Billtx49]

More sleep is great for your overall health. It's true that many don't consider this but if anything, It's more than Women, it allows your body and mind to operate at optimal levels.

Exactly. Proper undisturbed sleep quality and length = optimal awake focus, clarity, and mental sharpness. Lack of such will be noticeable to others, both men and women…

 

[17 shots]

It definitely makes a huge difference with weight lifting results. Idk about the women stuff though, that might just be in your head, or maybe as a result of better gains at the gym, you're getting more attention

When I worked 2 jobs and was only getting 2 to 4 hours of sleep, I was still getting IOI from women

 

[Medina]

Your entire facial structure can change when you're content

It sounds crazy but it's true

I remember walking into a club once after a great day

Woman started tonguing me as soon as I walked in

She was ugly as fvck but that's not the point

Women KNOW when you're in a good place

 

[zekko]

I've noticed when I'm short of sleep my face looks tired, older, and maybe kind of puffy.
But if I'm rested my face looks fresh, with better color, and I just look way better.
So yeah, I'm sure it can make a difference.

 

[captain55]

Are you more stressed but more focus with the 6 hrs? Are your dont give a **** levels higher and your calmer with the 9 hrs?

Absolutely. But at the end of the day looks are pretty much everything. A girl doesn't know if I am making 4k less a month when I meet her at the club. At to the fact that I am less stressed because I am not working so much it pays off. I put so much pressure on myself to be financially successful, and I still do...but I won't do it at the expense of ruining my looks. I remember a girl telling me "I looked exhausted" one day and looked in the mirror at my face and finally asked myself what the hell am I doing?

 

[corrector]

I wake up late these days but I get 8-9 hours of quality sleep. I get a million times more ass than when I was going into the office at 5:30 am every day even though I make 3-4k a month less. Looks go way further than money.

I think so many guys underestimate how important sleep is with women. Without it diet and training mean nothing. Anything less than 6 hours of sleep and I become invisible to women. I get 8 hours plus women throw themselves at me.

I can’t be the only guy here who notices the same?

I'm tired most of the time because I like staying up late or sometimes have difficulty sleeping. But I try to mask it with coffee. Thought nothing a few scoops of ground coffee in a coffee machine can't fix up, but now I'm not sure about that.

 

[Mike32ct]

Looks-maxing and Money-maxing (via work-maxing and sleep-min-ing) can be sometimes be conflicting goals.

I had much better looks/health/fitness and pulling power when I made 50k than now when I’m near 100k.

 

[Serenity]

Oh yeah, sleep is extremely important. Being well rested gives A LOT more energy, taking away just 1 or 2 hours will leave me with significantly less energy. I'll make it through the day just fine and won't feel particularly tired, but I won't have that little extra boost.

Your entire facial structure can change when you're content

It sounds crazy but it's true

I remember walking into a club once after a great day

Woman started tonguing me as soon as I walked in

She was ugly as fvck but that's not the point

Women KNOW when you're in a good place

There was one time where for some reason I got this deep feeling of calmness and satisfaction when going out to a club. I had been meditating just before and probably slept well (can't remember). That night was fvcking insane, I have never been so immersed in the moment. I was making out all over the place and got the attention of many more. It was nothing in particular I did, it was just like my good feelings just beamed out of me. Women were like moths to a light.

Many guys on this forum seriously underestimate just how much their state of mind affects their life. I didn't work out back then and I still don't (gotta do that soon though), I don't make a massive amount of money but women can't fvcking see that anyways. It was merely my state of mind and the natural actions flowing effortlessly from it.

Another time I had a particularly great day I got greeted by almost every stranger walking by, that NEVER happens. I live in Norway, a country where most people are fairly shy so it was particularly unusual for this to occur. I was confused until I looked in the mirror that day, then I saw that I had this satisfied smile on my face all day long and I didn't even notice. My face felt like the normal relaxed neutral face, but clearly my subconscious was pulling some strings there.

Bottom line, if you want to pull chicks, practice being happy.

 

[cheyne]

Looks is 10x more important than money if you are just looking to bang hot young girls from cold approach and stuff.
I can't believe such a thing even needs to be debated (unless maybe it's different in the US?)
Young hot Girls here don't give a sh1t if you are loaded if you aren't 'hot' according to her tastes.
Money here makes it easy to get with older women looking to settle down, but that's about it.
My broke handsome friends, DESTROY my friends making serious bank when it comes to getting a$$. (and that's not because the rich dudes are always working - They certainly put try to get laid!)

 

[17 shots]

A lot of insecure women prefer guys who are broke. They can have more control over them and they know where the guy is at all times. That's why you see good looking guys layed up playing madden all day while some woman pays the bills and takes care of him

 

[mrgoodstuff]

A lot of insecure women prefer guys who are broke. They can have more control over them and they know where the guy is at all times. That's why you see good looking guys layed up playing madden all day while some woman pays the bills and takes care of him

And cooks for him and fvcks him.

Shed be in competition with a driven, hard charging guy. Endless games to knock him off his pedastal. Cvcking anything to slow him.

 

[zekko]

My broke handsome friends, DESTROY my friends making serious bank when it comes to getting a$$. (and that's not because the rich dudes are always working - They certainly put try to get laid!)

You didn't say if your rich friends were handsome or not.advantaget
That aside, the broke guys are probably more rested come the weekend, while the rich guys are worn out from working. An old poster here, Backbreaker (whatever happened to him?), used to say deadbeat types had a huge advantage for this very reason. Because they could put all their energy into being fun.

Rich guys should be able dress better though. If girls are obsessed with a guy's shoes, they should be able to buy better shoes than the broke guys. At the very least.