"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's been a while, SS! Caught one-itis, solo holiday to a foreign city tomorrow... suggestions?

rhythmic

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Good evening, gentlemen!

Re-discovered this fine site after catching some hard one-itis for the first time in a LONG time, and thought "now what would the old Rhythmic do?" he'd come here and browse!

Long story short, I met a girl online, we chatted for a while until it become convenient for me to visit her country (about 3 weeks ago). Went, had a great 4 days of the greatest hardcore fvcking and some pretty good dates. This is where things went wrong.

On my last night there, went total beta and told her about my feelings (I know). We agreed to do a slow LDR (I know, I know) and on the way home, I booked some more tickets to go see her (I know, I know, I know...).

We chatted a couple of days after I got home and it was really apparent she wasn't that interested, so we broke it off, me being considerably more upset.

Fast forward to now; tomorrow morning I leave for her country again. I'm there for 5 days/6 nights. She has expressed interest in seeing me whilst I'm there. I've managed to recapture my frame a little after my beta meltdown, but I don't think it's salvageable with her (maybe a fvck). I wouldn't be going if I could have gotten refunds on my flight and hotel, but the money is gone, I'm gonna make the most of it.

Really though, I'm wondering how I'm gonna fill my time there. Not just gonna sit in my hotel cry-wanking every night. It's not a massively touristy city, which I think is gonna work in my favour. I'm probably about a 6 in pure looks (5'9 really kills me) but apart from my recent beta collapse, I'm solid on confidence and fine with approaching women and entertaining them.

Anyone here solo traveled to another country (they all speak English as a second language so communications will be fine) and scored with the local women?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Julian

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Why the fk u travelling countries to get with bitches bro
 

MatureDJ

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Phillipenes? This is where men who are otherwise losers with women go to be winners.
 
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