In the game of the " hearts (love, feelings, sex, passions etc) " women are the apex predators.
We men are merely the "catch".
Where do you think that phrase come from?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mental block about my age...help!
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We men are merely the "catch".
Where do you think that phrase come from?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I'm not sure I follow your train of thought on that.
There's 2 game play in the dance of seduction.
The most common is playing within the feminine imperative, where women are the undisputed masters - this is the natural predatory nature of All women.
The less common and most difficult for most men is by pulling the feminine imperative to interact with masculine presence but that interaction only touches the outer parts of the feminine imperative while slowly luring her into being absorbed by the masculine presence - this is the natural predatory nature of highly dominant males, even then very few can pull this off.
As such 90% or more men in this world were or are being caught in a women's web of manipulation, deceit, lies, etc..
The men were never predators. The women were. And every women thinks men are so dumb to believe otherwise.