"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Change Your Location, Get Laid

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Yeah, sure, wherever you go, there you are. Certainly true.

Having said that, I'm struck by the fact that good looking guys in my town struggle with dating whereas less than an hour out, lots of very average looking guys have hot or cute girlfriends.

Even within a half an hour, there are a couple of great hotspots for me, even though the local area is generally sh1t.

Interestingly, the girls I meet out of town often move so fast, I sometimes don't even realize what's going on until it's too late.

If you don't have a car, get one. If you have one, and don't like driving an hour out of your area, get used to it. Load up some music or podcasts on your phone and drive! Devote a weekend morning or afternoon or evening to travel north, south, east or west: find a fun activity on facebook and go check it out. It could change your life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If I travel just 20 mins to the next town (i'm in teh South East UK) the chances of me getting an insta blowout go down from maybe 75% to 25%
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If I travel just 20 mins to the next town (i'm in teh South East UK) the chances of me getting an insta blowout go down from maybe 75% to 25%
I agree that people are different in different places, but I also wonder if your approach changes any in another town? Maybe you feel braver out of town since you have a greater feeling of anonymity, possibly? Plus the change of perspective might make things feel more fresh for you? Just a thought.

The only bad thing with this is you end up with long distance relationships, which aren't usually successful.
I've talked to many girls out of town, and it ends up that they actually live somewhere far away from there.
 

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Yeah, sure, wherever you go, there you are. Certainly true.

Having said that, I'm struck by the fact that good looking guys in my town struggle with dating whereas less than an hour out, lots of very average looking guys have hot or cute girlfriends.

Even within a half an hour, there are a couple of great hotspots for me, even though the local area is generally sh1t.

Interestingly, the girls I meet out of town often move so fast, I sometimes don't even realize what's going on until it's too late.

If you don't have a car, get one. If you have one, and don't like driving an hour out of your area, get used to it. Load up some music or podcasts on your phone and drive! Devote a weekend morning or afternoon or evening to travel north, south, east or west: find a fun activity on facebook and go check it out. It could change your life.
Didn’t I write a fool proof article how to get laid
Buy changing your location last week and every body bagged me ???
 

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I agree that people are different in different places, but I also wonder if your approach changes any in another town? Maybe you feel braver out of town since you have a greater feeling of anonymity, possibly? Plus the change of perspective might make things feel more fresh for you? Just a thought.

The only bad thing with this is you end up with long distance relationships, which aren't usually successful.
I've talked to many girls out of town, and it ends up that they actually live somewhere far away from there.
Yeah, i've thought about the 'why', and my best guess is that my town is basically a fairly 'rough' and 'chavvy' area.
It's not unusual for me to walk up to some hot teen in a bar and be lke 'HI!' (or open in whatever way the current guru advises) and she's like ''Can you not ****ing talk to me? I don't know you. Go away!'' or she'll just look at me like i've got 3 heads, blink and walk away...fast! haha

In the town 20mins away, house prices are about double! The people are just less hostile and posher.

Doesn't make it easy to actually get laid, though. You're still like to get 'no girls' if you aren't her type, only instead of saying '**** off!'' these girl will just do that thing where they just don't contribute at all to the convo. Just sid there a and nod their heads, waiting for you to leave lol
 

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Didn’t I write a fool proof article how to get laid
Buy changing your location last week and every body bagged me ???
What town did you write it in

Seriously though, i've noticed this phenomenon where you can get different responses here on different days. One reason I don't take all the advice here too seriously.
 

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Yeah, i've thought about the 'why', and my best guess is that my town is basically a fairly 'rough' and 'chavvy' area.
It's not unusual for me to walk up to some hot teen in a bar and be lke 'HI!' (or open in whatever way the current guru advises) and she's like ''Can you not ****ing talk to me? I don't know you. Go away!'' or she'll just look at me like i've got 3 heads, blink and walk away...fast! haha

In the town 20mins away, house prices are about double! The people are just less hostile and posher.

Doesn't make it easy to actually get laid, though. You're still like to get 'no girls' if you aren't her type, only instead of saying '**** off!'' these girl will just do that thing where they just don't contribute at all to the convo. Just sid there a and nod their heads, waiting for you to leave lol
You'll need to create social proof to have a semblance of constant success.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is beneficial in some aspects, but to move to get more perceived options to a dating pool is drastic
 

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This is beneficial in some aspects, but to move to get more perceived options to a dating pool is drastic
It really is, but I don't think he's advocating moving, just driving over for a visit and checking out the local fauna. Worst that can happen is that you get some practice.
 

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It really is, but I don't think he's advocating moving, just driving over for a visit and checking out the local fauna. Worst that can happen is that you get some practice.
This was what I wrote sorry about the incorrect grammar any way basically I told people to download tinder gold, get your photos on point and start swiping on other parts of your country city’s towns etc I’m in Australia , or just change the country your wanting to travel to swipe on a few for a few days , then bam you will see what the girls are attracted to in that town like you can meet the girls From tinder add them to what’s app , or meet girls in the place you travel to because you know when you approach your gonna have more chances if your getting more matches on tinder in that location .https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/full-proof-system-to-getting-laid-now-i-know-there-is-going-to-be-back-lash-here-it-all-boils-down-to-location.259312/

And here look at this guy two minutes in tinder in Eastern Europe ok yes he is handsome tall surfboard well can’t see his face , but still try what I’m saying when Mac Donald’s open a business they do market research and opening where there is a lot of people, same goes for getting laid where there is a lot of women go there.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=2Oh0tfRSMLY
 

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What town did you write it in

Seriously though, i've noticed this phenomenon where you can get different responses here on different days. One reason I don't take all the advice here too seriously.
No no. The advice is usually tailored to the outcome of the set.

OP: “It was the third date, and she seemed very upset and distracted. We haven’t slept together.
Sosuave: “You moved way too slow. Girls are uncomfortable if you move slow.

OP: “It was the third date, and she seemed very upset and distracted. We’ve slept together
Sosuave: You moved way too fast. Girls are uncomfortable if you move fast.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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No no. The advice is usually tailored to the outcome of the set.

OP: “It was the third date, and she seemed very upset and distracted. We haven’t slept together.
Sosuave: “You moved way too slow. Girls are uncomfortable if you move slow.

OP: “It was the third date, and she seemed very upset and distracted. We’ve slept together
Sosuave: You moved way too fast. Girls are uncomfortable if you move fast.
So how's that negativity you're been posting for a year helping you along?

Any tangible results towards getting laid ?

If not then it's your negative attitude that's generating bad vibes and even a little 5 year old girl will notice it.
 
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