"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jealousy

greatsnake

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I personally can not tolerate a jealous girlfriend. One stint of it and I bounce. Is there a way to become more patient?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrgoodstuff

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I personally can not tolerate a jealous girlfriend. One stint of it and I bounce. Is there a way to become more patient?
Sounds like its a core incompatibility. Keep as a plate and a huge distance.
 

Alvafe

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depend on how she does the jealous really, if with disrespect then yes you kick her, if not just tease her, rule is if a girl likes you she will be jealous, she never do, that is the moment you should spin plates
 
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