The Rational Male saga , did I made a mistake?

[The Diver]

I have been seen this woman for a few months now. I liked her, she is fun and we had great chemistry. She pushes for exclusivity but I pushed it gently away, and we continue dating around once a week.
One evening we talk about her 18 years old son and his dating life. I told her I recommended he read The Rational Male and add "its a great book that will help him understanding relationship dynamic". "ok, so maybe I'll read it as well," she said. I said (and this is my mistake I think) " mmm I don't think it's a good idea", knowing how it's can be offensive to some women. " Ow yea?" she said, "now I definitely going to read it ".
Since then I didn't hear from her for 4 weeks. I then texted her " hey babe what's going on? No replay. Two weeks past and I text " ???" , still no replay. I then txt " Ok got the hint, take care". She replayed with " I don't know Diver I read YOUR favourite book and I found it disturbing". I texted back " seriously kate, you judge me by a book you read ? " did you find me a disturbed person?"
Two days past, no answer, so I guess it's over.

Do you think It's a mistake mentioning this book, or any other book dealing with this subject, to a woman you're dating ?

 

[Billtx49]

Yep, you let her know that you were clued in to female behavior. She apparently liked it better before when the odds were on her side of the table…

 

[Infern0]

You don't expose your knowledge of red pill to women, there's nothing good that can come of it. If you wanted to help the kid out should have taken him for a beer and given him some pointers.

 

[GT40]

Yep, you let her know that you were clued in to female behavior. She apparently liked it better before when the odds were on her side of the table…

Yes. For sure she knows now the upper hand is yours. She can’t win at any **** testing or any other testing. You’ve scared her off. Congrats but too bad for her. She lost an Alpha male.

 

[SoSuave666]

You cannot talk about these things with women. Although they know it's true, they will always think you are "playing things by the book" and never being genuine. Women want men who do all the things Rollo talks about naturally not due to massive amounts of heartache and research.

There are lots of mistakes you can make with women. IMO clueing them in to your red pill knowledge is worse than things like cheating, crime, beta behavior.

 

[GrowingPains]

Yes. For sure she knows now the upper hand is yours. She can’t win at any **** testing or any other testing. You’ve scared her off. Congrats but too bad for her. She lost an Alpha male.

If the kid still got the book, I'll consider it a win.

 

[The Diver]

If the kid still got the book, I'll consider it a win.

haha, I hope he still has it unless she convinced him it's garbage not worth reading. Unfortunately, he is the Nice Guy type, hence why I tried to help him a bit, but more likely now he will listen to her.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Tactical error, as others have pointed out.

There is no way for women to even process our stuff. They can only see it as “misogyny”.

Our body of knowledge is to be disseminated among men only and then LIVED OUT.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I have been seen this woman for a few months now. I liked her, she is fun and we had great chemistry. She pushes for exclusivity but I pushed it gently away, and we continue dating around once a week.
One evening we talk about her 18 years old son and his dating life. I told her I recommended he read The Rational Male and add "its a great book that will help him understanding relationship dynamic". "ok, so maybe I'll read it as well," she said. I said (and this is my mistake I think) " mmm I don't think it's a good idea", knowing how it's can be offensive to some women. " Ow yea?" she said, "now I definitely going to read it ".
Since then I didn't hear from her for 4 weeks. I then texted her " hey babe what's going on? No replay. Two weeks past and I text " ???" , still no replay. I then txt " Ok got the hint, take care". She replayed with " I don't know Diver I read YOUR favourite book and I found it disturbing". I texted back " seriously kate, you judge me by a book you read ? " did you find me a disturbed person?"
Two days past, no answer, so I guess it's over.

Do you think It's a mistake mentioning this book, or any other book dealing with this subject, to a woman you're dating ?

School boy error.

1. Single mom

2. You don't tell women to read your red pill content

3. You have no options when rollo beats spinning plates to death.

You dun goofed. Single mom is train wreck. They are bj material when on a dryspell or bored.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Tactical error, as others have pointed out.

There is no way for women to even process our stuff. They can only see it as “misogyny”.

Our body of knowledge is to be disseminated among men only and then LIVED OUT.

+1

You should shoot the **** with dudes and point out this really controversial book that might get banned @op.

You seed it.. RooshV is banned. You seed something op with dudes and it is even better for women.

 

[Trump]

3. You have no options when rollo beats spinning plates to death.

Rollo is married. He signed an agreement with the state that he would emotionally, financially, legally, morally and physically commit to one women for the rest life.

Single mom is train wreck. They are bj material when on a dryspell or bored.

No sex?

 

[The Diver]

Thanks guys for your input.

Yep, I agree, definitely a rookie mistake on my parts.

Since introducing to Red pill a few years ago, I was very careful not to mention any of it to any woman I was dating. I mention it just b'cos I wanted to help her Nice Guy son. This one was a slip I need to be sure won't happen again. Lesson learned

 

[sosousage]

Could you really fuvc it this bad OP, ha ha

 

[Murk]

Even when I speak lightly about my red pill and anti extreme feminist views with females I get into arguments, some enjoy the debate though.

Rule number one of Fight Club!

 

[backseatjuan]

Excellent riddance Diver! You don't need a woman with a kid anyway. Now I'm thinking the kid is screwed, that feminist monster gonna give him female advice, how to buy gifts and sht in order to get the vagina. As for you man, when it comes to an LTR or wife consideration, woman should not have kids, period, it's not even under discussion. I know you weren't considering her to be your LTR but still. She did brake up with you not because of the book tho, it was coming even without a book, she just find a convenient excuse and you gave it to her this what hurts the most. She knows she's a slvt and she more than likely already was fcking several dcks when this talk about the book came up.

 

[MatureDJ]

Single mom is train wreck. They are bj material when on a dryspell or bored.

 

[Glassguy]

As others have already pointed out, never share your red pill POV with any females.

Also, if she bounced for something so simple, fvck her. You dodged a bullet. She probably reads Cosmopolitan or some other bullshyte for single moms that are half fvckin mental, so her excuse for ghosting is null and void.

Never respond back to her again. She texts, you delete without readying her bullshyte nonsense.

 

[zekko]

It was probably Rollo's strong stance on plate spinning that irritated her (ironic since he's married). You might have gotten by with it but you had already turned down her push for exclusivity, which probably indicated to her that you buy into the philosophy.

 

[The Diver]

Single mom is train wreck.

She is a single mom b'cos her husband committed suicide due to depression. She is a nurse with a good job. She was loving, caring, fun to be with and I didn't see any red flags about her.

I understand the opinion of most here about not dating a single mom, but women in my age (50th ) are all or widows( due to a car accident, cancer, and as such ) or divorce with kids. Finding a single woman in my age without kids is not realistic, but at least I'm taking care to only date women with grown-up kids (18up) so no kids string attached to me.

I know, most think single moms are trash but I dated few awesome single moms who have a good job, paid home, hobbies, good close family, fantastic intelligent kids (some in Uni or graduate from Uni) who go about their life like any other women. Yes I come across problematic single moms, and in those casees I eject very quickly, but I think many here generalising too much about a single moms.

Why no one here ever says about the single mom @BeExcellent that she is a train wreck good only for bj ? b'cos there are single moms outside there who are good quality women to date, just like BeExcellent is.

 

[guru1000]

Value lowering (to some women) ... plain and simple.

Here is how female logic works:

"He's reading a book to get good with the ladies? Why? Is he not good already? My previous ex's never needed to read a book to 'game' women because they were so handsome that women came to them."

"Maybe women aren't coming to him, and he needed help"

"I guess his value was never quite there to begin with."

" I saw wrong"

"Next!"

Understand, to some women, if you are a student of game, you are compensating. This is not true obviously but some will feel that way.

I share "game" ideas with women all the time, but it comes from a true context of "what I found from my experience dating hundreds and why women are so drawn to me is ..." as opposed to "I read a book and found out ..."