Do single middle-aged men lack the "va-va-voom" of their female peers?

[MatureDJ]

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/rel...y-cant-a-single-man-be-more-like-a-woman.html

The single women I know, especially those in their forties, fifties and sixties, often seem better equipped than their male peers to lead a fulfilling solo life. They take up tennis and tap-dancing and learn to speak Spanish. They have facials and chic hair-dos and channel their inner rock chick.

Meanwhile, single middle-aged men often seem to lack the va-va-voom of female peers. I told Saturday’s audience that, as far as I could see, the main reason so many middle-aged women remained solo was that they’d rather be on their own than bed down with males so unkempt their jumpers had their own ecosystems. I also recounted how a beautiful, talented friend of mine – then in her late fifties – once had a date with a man who bought a sandwich from Boots for lunch and offered her half.

my opinion: Men are motivated to be "kempt" - and do all the other BS - by the desire to attain attractive young females, and they aren't motivated to do so for middle-aged females. Young, normie-tier & below men are horny enough to allow cougars to pick up on them for sex.

Here's a video by Aaron Clarey about how as men age, they just "give up" the game of socializing as they determine that the juice is no longer worth the squeeze (around 9:30).

Here's another one:

 

[mrgoodstuff]

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/rel...y-cant-a-single-man-be-more-like-a-woman.html




my opinion: Men are motivated to be "kempt" - and do all the other BS - by the desire to attain attractive young females - and they aren't motivated to do so for middle-aged females.

Here's a video by Aaron Clarey about how as men age, they just "give up" the game of socializing as they determine that the juice is no longer worth the squeeze.

By that age men have been through one or more divorces, each reducing him. On the flip side each divorce raised the woman.

 

[btownbuck2012]

Nothing but a bunch of blue pill noise from old hens who subconsciously know something is very wrong with the way their lives have turned out.

Imo, women like the article is describing are the female version of a beta; older, divorced or never married, mentally ill (to varying degrees, more often
than not), disillusioned with the message they’ve received from the powers that be that riding the CC and then enjoying the single life in their later years would fulfill them when it absolutely has not, and constantly dealing with weak men who have bought into the same lie.

There’s two problems.

1. Women are hive minded creatures. They do NOT self reflect. Feminism gained momentum and convinced women that it’s OK to act masculine (high partner counts, casually dating a lot of men, bullying and intimidation in the work place and Machiavellian type behavior with their romantic partners), thus leading to a generation of desperately lost and deeply unhappy women. Again, a lot of that is subconscious. Remember they don’t self analyze ever. Think of it as a herd of sheep happily running off a cliff. That’s your modern day woman.

2. Men have bought into the same lie. Women need masculine guidance in the same way men benefit from receiving feminine support and encouragement. But we have a generation of men who can’t lead themselves let alone a woman or group of people. Women are told to like these men when they subconsciously are revolted by them. Masculine guidance of the feminine should earn the trust, love and support of that woman (i.e. good behavior). But when men can’t lead and women have been tricked into believing a false lie, what happens?

- bizarre reactions to authentic love, support, compassion and empathy.
- short term, intense relationships that end in very strange ways
- deep resentment and anger towards the opposite sex by both men and women
- high suicide, divorce and single parent home rates
- alcoholism, substance abuse to cope
- and outright backlash at healthy masculinity

Think I’m wrong? Try LEADING a damaged woman who has high IL in you. Watch her immediately rely on perverted defense mechanisms to try and shift the balance of power. She’s not after a complimentary relationship where the man and woman respect one another - she’s after power and control. Again, because she’s been taught that’s what love is. And again, she doesn’t have the tools to self analyze or correct.

And because they don’t self analyze and self correct, they force fit a crooked puzzle piece. They glorify themeselves, as we see in this article OP referenced, while ignoring the problem. Think of putting a bandaid on a broken ankle. THAT is the modern day man and woman. A band aid on a broken ankle. But don’t be fooled. There ain’t no “va va voom” to be found anywhere. In fact I’ll give you the correct definition below:

Va va voom: damaged, depressed women and weak minded men trying to convince themselves that they’re happy when they are the exact opposite.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I adopted bachelor pad economics and enjoy the demise philosophy as tenants in game. I have a great appreciation for rollo and the rational male. I just would likely end up with a fight after the call outs at domr point.

I started the journey a decade ago +/- to VET A GIRL AND WIFE. I have seen enough people for the past 10 years + with game to see the world as it is. Not how I wish it to be. I adopt routine be it gym, mma, yoga, meditation, and a number of different things that make life a fuller adventure. I plate women regardless of aesthetics, looks, sex appeal. It just is for sport.

Note, the literature is geared towards wonen women> men. Its us vs them. Its crazy cat lady on tren after cratered SMV and tge the wall. Its backwards rational for ****ty life choices.

You will never be complete. Embrace the process and consequences of your life. There's a lot of stuff you can do. I reset myself by tripping, dmt or heroic dose of mushrooms. I have seen some stuff. It turns off the volume. Gratitude goes a long way.


There's a malevolent element of life. Outside of children bearing, women after marriage switch off. Divorce rape awaits. The hedonic alternative is a route I practice.

Find solace in the process. Seek solitude. Go monk mode even. It is absurd to see what you can do in silence. My mate went 8month monk mode, just bjj (graded black), lifted, and meditated. Women were banging on his car window begging to come home with him or texting him to come over, "dad's asleep. I took the window out." lulz

Its funny that the father, man, and god is trashed in western society. God is referred to as God the Father. There's a emphasis on man created in the image of God.

What does it say when women trash man, who is created in tge image of God?

There's emphasis on the same thing of women in the gita.


Gita 1.41 Adharmābhibhavāt kṛṣṇa
pradushyanti kulastriyah |
Strīṣu duṣtāsu vārṣnēya
jāyatē varṇasamkaraḥ

The Bhagavad Gita: "Out of the corruption of women proceeds the corruption of races; out of the corruption of races, the loss of memory; out of the loss of memory, the loss of understanding, and out of this all evil."

Here we are. I am enjoying the decline. I wont be saving nor allocating my resources for the crash.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Nothing but a bunch of blue pill noise from old hens who subconsciously know something is very wrong with the way their lives have turned out.

Imo, women like the article is describing are the female version of a beta; older, divorced or never married, mentally ill (to varying degrees, more often
than not), disillusioned with the message they’ve received from the powers that be that riding the CC and then enjoying the single life in their later years would fulfill them when it absolutely has not, and constantly dealing with weak men who have bought into the same lie.

There’s two problems.

1. Women are hive minded creatures. They do NOT self reflect. Feminism gained momentum and convinced women that it’s OK to act masculine (high partner counts, casually dating a lot of men, bullying and intimidation in the work place and Machiavellian type behavior with their romantic partners), thus leading to a generation of desperately lost and deeply unhappy women. Again, a lot of that is subconscious. Remember they don’t self analyze ever. Think of it as a herd of sheep happily running off a cliff. That’s your modern day woman.

2. Men have bought into the same lie. Women need masculine guidance in the same way men benefit from receiving feminine support and encouragement. But we have a generation of men who can’t lead themselves let alone a woman or group of people. Women are told to like these men when they subconsciously are revolted by them. Masculine guidance of the feminine should earn the trust, love and support of that woman (i.e. good behavior). But when men can’t lead and women have been tricked into believing a false lie, what happens?

- bizarre reactions to authentic love, support, compassion and empathy.
- short term, intense relationships that end in very strange ways
- deep resentment and anger towards the opposite sex by both men and women
- high suicide, divorce and single parent home rates
- alcoholism, substance abuse to cope
- and outright backlash at healthy masculinity

Think I’m wrong? Try LEADING a damaged woman who has high IL in you. Watch her immediately rely on perverted defense mechanisms to try and shift the balance of power. She’s not after a complimentary relationship where the man and woman respect one another - she’s after power and control. Again, because she’s been taught that’s what love is. And again, she doesn’t have the tools to self analyze or correct.

And because they don’t self analyze and self correct, they force fit a crooked puzzle piece. They glorify themeselves, as we see in this article OP referenced, while ignoring the problem. Think of putting a bandaid on a broken ankle. THAT is the modern day man and woman. A band aid on a broken ankle. But don’t be fooled. There ain’t no “va va voom” to be found anywhere. In fact I’ll give you the correct definition below:

Va va voom: damaged, depressed women and weak minded men trying to convince themselves that they’re happy when they are the exact opposite.

Nicely said.

Its hilarious to think that before i was unplugged, before i was forged in the fire, i was competing for marriage. I know better now. Hypergamy is cyclical in males design and desire for competition.

The problems now are that, the comp is for spoiled goods (at best). Beta marries girl late 20s, dated since say 25. He acquires what, 5yrs from 30? He gets LMR and a fat wife. Rollo posted about a cuck who discovered his LMR wife's college gang bang devil's triangle amateur porn videos.

What are men to strive towards? Manufacturing is dead. Male wages are flat. Divorce rape awaits. Women are hired in fire fighting cannot pass basic testing. False accusations pop off decades later without proof or consequences.

 

[Who Dares Win]

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/rel...y-cant-a-single-man-be-more-like-a-woman.html




my opinion: Men are motivated to be "kempt" - and do all the other BS - by the desire to attain attractive young females, and they aren't motivated to do so for middle-aged females. Young, normie-tier & below men are horny enough to allow cougars to pick up on them for sex.

Here's a video by Aaron Clarey about how as men age, they just "give up" the game of socializing as they determine that the juice is no longer worth the squeeze (around 9:30).

Here's another one:

I totally share cappy's view about society and economics, he is probably the blogger I like the most.

No bullsh1t or filosofy, just plain straight truth with evidences supporting what he says.

Here my favourite article http://captaincapitalism.blogspot.com/2012/07/minimalism-threat.html