PeasantPlayer
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It's not a bad videoDo we really need more "science" in body-building? Seems to me like it's been science-ed to death. Most of it is bro-science.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The video is straight to the point easy to understand and implement. Its good for beginners looking to get started. The added links from pubmed are a bonus imoUnless you’re competing professionally and/or you plateau after years of lifting and need to squeeze out every advantage for that extra pound of muscle, all of this deep science isnt really necessary, imo.
You’d be much better off otherwise just sticking to the fundamentals and knowing how to listen to your own body.
Yep everybody is going to benefit from fundamental training, and any workout should be rooted in that aspect of it. Bulking, cutting, doesn't matter. Only reason isolation movements should be incorporated is to either work around an injury or fine tune/secondarily work a muscle group.Just as an example: The video mentions you should do a chest supported inverted row (rather than a barbell bent over row) in order to avoid incorporating lower back muscles (not to mention legs as well) that have already been sufficiently worked out. Sounds great, but why isn't this same logic being applied to...say.... the deadlift or the bench press or any other compound exorcize? Why this compound movement, but not that one? Why do any compound exorcise at all if that is the logic behind it? If you can't answer that, then why the hell are you doing it?
Now I have done chest supported rows, but only when my body told me to. At one point I had a DOMS issue going on in my legs when it was time for me to work the back. I knew I wouldn't be able to maximize intensity with the bent over rows with that going on, so I did the chest supported row to get a maximum upper back intensity without recruiting those other muscles. But as soon as my body recovered, I went back to the bent over rows. My body quickly adapted and I have not had issues since then that would suggest that I should continue with chest-supported variations.
I could even argue that someone new to lifting needs to recruit muscles in these compound exorcises in order to build a more solid core. Why tell them to isolate more? Where is the scientific justification there?
Outside of any very basic workout routine that has been proven to work for noobs, the only thing they need to know is how to lift, eat and sleep properly. Proper form, the right intake of calories, how much rest is needed and how much rest is too much. You're body is going to give you all of the answers you need with a level of precision and accuracy that science simply can't compete with.
All science conflicts, just like your idea of working out is conflicting with the video or someone's idea of working out conflicts with another.That's the problem, IMO. It's just another split routine of the millions being pushed out there.... being presented with a lot of science talk.
Don't get me wrong. I love science. I'm a geek for it. The problem with it is that there are so many conflicting scientific studies out there that the only science that is solid enough to work on the masses is going to be largely fundamental in nature:
Lift, eat, sleep.
Lift, eat, sleep.
Lift, eat, sleep.
Science attempts to pin point exactly how to lift, or exactly what/how much you should eat, or how long exactly to rest/sleep, etc. But no matter what formula science comes up with, everyone's body is going to react differently to it. Different genetics, different metabolic rates, different recovery rates, different strengths and limitations, etc..... there are too many other variables always involved. This is why your body can tell you exactly what you need to know when science can't.
Science told me that I if I wanted to eat at a 500 calorie surplus working out 5x a week that I should consume roughly 3000 calories per day in order to bulk. But my body told me otherwise. I had to go to just under 4000 calories to start slowly putting on mass. If someone else does the same thing, they will likely turn into a tubby bastard real quick.
Speaking of conflicting studies, there is conflict in this video, IMO.
Just as an example: The video mentions you should do a chest supported inverted row (rather than a barbell bent over row) in order to avoid incorporating lower back muscles (not to mention legs as well) that have already been sufficiently worked out. Sounds great, but why isn't this same logic being applied to...say.... the deadlift or the bench press or any other compound exorcize? Why this compound movement, but not that one? Why do any compound exorcise at all if that is the logic behind it? If you can't answer that, then why the hell are you doing it?
Now I have done chest supported rows, but only when my body told me to. At one point I had a DOMS issue going on in my legs when it was time for me to work the back. I knew I wouldn't be able to maximize intensity with the bent over rows with that going on, so I did the chest supported row to get a maximum upper back intensity without recruiting those other muscles. But as soon as my body recovered, I went back to the bent over rows. My body quickly adapted and I have not had issues since then that would suggest that I should continue with chest-supported variations.
I could even argue that someone new to lifting needs to recruit muscles in these compound exorcises in order to build a more solid core. Why tell them to isolate more? Where is the scientific justification there?
Outside of any very basic workout routine that has been proven to work for noobs, the only thing they need to know is how to lift, eat and sleep properly. Proper form, the right intake of calories, how much rest is needed and how much rest is too much. You're body is going to give you all of the answers you need with a level of precision and accuracy that science simply can't compete with.
That's a cop out though man, there are certainly some universal truths. Science is based on universal truth.All science conflicts, just like your idea of working out is conflicting with the video or someone's idea of working out conflicts with another.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's not a cop out it's the truth, science is based on evidence and observation and repeated studies. There are but very few truths and most of them have nothing to do with science. Science is a tool of observation and hypothesis testing.That's a cop out though man, there are certainly some universal truths. Science is based on universal truth.
Nah, science is based on the scientific method. It takes extensive testing for each hypothesis. Universal truth only exists when the science becomes law.That's a cop out though man, there are certainly some universal truths. Science is based on universal truth.