"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Crazy how powerful fame is - Arnolds ugly bastard son has gorgeous gf

Thread starter bigdave17
Start date Jan 23, 2019

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bigdave17

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#21

AJ84 said:
Guys who look like that get other guys of that quality. Dude looks like a gay porn star Dave.

I'll create a tinder or match profile with that pic and get 100,000 female matches

gay men would go crazy for him but they go crazy for me also. Gay men have normal standards

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bigdave17

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#22

redskinsfan92 said:
He is not average. He is pretty toned.

his face is ugly for what women want. Realistically like a 5 or 6 face

women of that quality want a 9 or 10/10 face nowadays

redskinsfan92

Master Don Juan

#23

bigdave17 said:
his face is ugly for what women want. Realistically like a 5 or 6 face

women of that quality want a 9 or 10/10 face nowadays

How do you know that women find his face ugly?

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bigdave17

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#24

redskinsfan92 said:
How do you know that women find his face ugly?

create a tinder or match profile with his pics and you'll see zero matches and messages

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SoSuave666

Master Don Juan

#25

You’re such a cancer to this board. You belong on an incel site. Go away.

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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fanatic22

Senior Don Juan

#26

Dave the premise of this thread is an ugly guy getting a hot girl, yet you’ve used the rest of the thread to argue that can’t happen. They met in college from what I read, so a pretty normal bf/gf situation.

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bigdave17

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#27

fanatic22 said:
Dave the premise of this thread is an ugly guy getting a hot girl, yet you’ve used the rest of the thread to argue that can’t happen. They met in college from what I read, so a pretty normal bf/gf situation.

another natural introduction, I don't count those cause 99% of us don't meet 10/10s naturally in daily routine.

try approaching that at a gym, concert, bar, etc... got zero chance in hell

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan

#28

bigdave17 said:
his face is ugly for what women want. Realistically like a 5 or 6 face

women of that quality want a 9 or 10/10 face nowadays

Or a rapper

redskinsfan92

Master Don Juan

#29

bigdave17 said:
create a tinder or match profile with his pics and you'll see zero matches and messages

You have crated s Tinder profile with his picks?

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bigdave17

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#30

redskinsfan92 said:
You have crated s Tinder profile with his picks?

come on dude. You know how these women are nowadays

either look like this or not even worth trying, unless you can somehow meet them naturally/interact with them a lot before asking them out

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

btownbuck2012

Master Don Juan

#31

Can almost guarantee that chick fvcks around on him.

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fanatic22

Senior Don Juan

#32

bigdave17 said:
come on dude. You know how these women are nowadays

either look like this or not even worth trying, unless you can somehow meet them naturally/interact with them a lot before asking them out

Women are not just into roided up meatheads...

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan

#33

bigdave17 said:
come on dude. You know how these women are nowadays

either look like this or not even worth trying, unless you can somehow meet them naturally/interact with them a lot before asking them out

Your delusional dude.

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan

#34

btownbuck2012 said:
Can almost guarantee that chick fvcks around on him.

On arnolds son? Oh yeah they are cheating ANYONE for straight power.

redskinsfan92

Master Don Juan

#35

I'm starting to see what y'all have been saying about him...

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bigdave17

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#36

fanatic22 said:
Women are not just into roided up meatheads...

its not about that, its about the chad face along with masculine physique

PeasantPlayer

Master Don Juan

#37

Dave right though Arnold son ugly

GrowingPains

Master Don Juan

#38

Go get yours and stop worrying about another man lol

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spinich

Senior Don Juan

#39

And then there is the gay thing Dave keeps alluding too. Hmmmm.

lamath

Master Don Juan

#40

thread like this explain why Dave is failing.

Its Pure negativity and desperation.

Seriously Dave you really need to work on that.
Open your mind up to the possibilities its too narrow

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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