Black Sunshine
Don Juan
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If you date multiple ladies, how does THAT work out. First cvm, first served???
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Black Sunshine
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Black Sunshine
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Valentin's Day
- Thread starter Black Sunshine
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Early and late option. Use 2-3 hrs windows. Your golden if all 3 pay for your valentines and gift you.
Black Sunshine
Don Juan
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What if the first one wants to giv up that azz, but the 2nd date is still up? I likes yo style bro!
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
We must be the best we can be. Top of the game.
Black Sunshine
Don Juan
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I'm making it man. Best I can. i've had a ****ed up attitude for longer than I realized. A LONG time...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.