Amante and Guru

[bigdave17]

I have 3 pics now on my dating profile that rate following on photofeeler. I did it to where only women under 34 voted

8.9 attractive/8.8 smart/8.7 trustworthy
7.6/7 2/6.5
7.5/7.5/6.9

I still got zero replies from the 10 women i messaged. Bunch looked at my profile and didn't message me

Tell me again how online dating is not impossible and that women don't have absurd standards on there.

 

[sazc]

D-oh!!!
#first
Here we go with a 20 page thread!

 

[lamath]

Wb Dave
Wishing you a happy New year
Hope you have more succes this year

 

[Ranger]

Copy and paste the messages you sent here.
Copy and paste what your profile says here.

 

[bigdave17]

Copy and paste the messages you sent here.
Copy and paste what your profile says here.

profile is exactly what amante uses

messages are common sense simple stuff

 

[SoSuave666]

What do you look like? Are the pictures action shots or are they selfies?

 

[Ranger]

profile is exactly what amante uses

messages are common sense simple stuff

Oh good. You didn’t bore them or offer marriage.

 

[bigdave17]

What do you look like? Are the pictures action shots or are they selfies?

selfies wouldn't be getting a 7.6 or 8.9 on photofeeler

 

[17 shots]

you could of just PM them... you got damn groupie

 

[Spaz]

Welcome back Dave.

 

[R.U.G.]

What not to do in OLD, by BigDave17.... Happy New Year.... He's backkkkkk

Lord, someone help this man see the light...............

 

[bigdave17]

What not to do in OLD, by BigDave17.... Happy New Year.... He's backkkkkk

Lord, someone help this man see the light...............

I'm not back. I just demand explanation from Amante and @guru why I'm not getting any results with my 8.9 rated pic on photofeeler

 

[R.U.G.]

I'm not back. I just demand explanation from Amante and @guru why I'm not getting any results with my 8.9 rated pic on photofeeler

Demand? How would they know? The people voting on photofeeler may not be the same people who are on OLD. In addition, many on photofeeler are just voting freehandedly so they can get free votes on their pics. It's a zero sum game. If you want answers, look into yourself. That is where your answers are.

When I was in Manhattan for NYE, I shut my notifications off from my OLD apps. I turned them back on this morning. I had dozens of women liked and interested. You are in Chicagoland and should of had the same results. It's really not hard when you are in a really large city. Post your pics. Post your description. Post your messages to them. We can then dissect them if you wish. You need to give off the IDGAF vibe. Something tells me you are giving off the needy vibe. Again, the only one who can truly help you is you.

 

[Ranger]

I'm not back. I just demand explanation from Amante and @guru why I'm not getting any results with my 8.9 rated pic on photofeeler

I seriously doubt that they presented it in a way that it all boiled down to pictures. Wouldn’t now be appropriate to start learning about messaging?
A basic message is pretty boring. She can’t see your vibe or your body language so wouldn’t your message contain something to spark her curiosity?

There are some pretty good looking men out there that can’t get past the first conversation with a woman. At some point you are going to have to interact with her Dave. Now that you have the good pictures, wouldn’t you be ready for the next step to learn?

 

[bigdave17]

I seriously doubt that they presented it in a way that it all boiled down to pictures. Wouldn’t now be appropriate to start learning about messaging?
A basic message is pretty boring. She can’t see your vibe or your body language so wouldn’t your message contain something to spark her curiosity?

There are some pretty good looking men out there that can’t get past the first conversation with a woman. At some point you are going to have to interact with her Dave. Now that you have the good pictures, wouldn’t you be ready for the next step to learn?

I'm not a creative or unique or witty writer bro


I make lots of friends and people love me in real life cause my demeanor and body language is super chill/genuine/etc... I can't come across with that in messages

 

[Ranger]

I'm not a creative or unique or witty writer bro


I make lots of friends and people love me in real life cause my demeanor and body language is super chill/genuine/etc... I can't come across with that in messages

That’s powerful that you can admit that. Nice. Well you can learn. Get guru and Amante to send you some and then learn to dissect them and unravel the meanings past the words.
You can practice writing different ones in word and then send them to them.
The key for you, based on your self assessment, would be to get them in person as fast as possible.

It could be as simple as opening with them with that right away. I’m not an online guy but I think it could be easily adapted.

“Hey not-fat-heifer, I don’t like the endless messaging and I would rather get to the in depth & meat of interactions, early drinks on Friday?, you just never know.”

That might be terrible so don’t use it. Lol
But if you get through this, you could be on your way. Get them in front of you.

The real idea behind the dissecting of the words is to understand what effect they have on others.

 

[Glassguy]

I'm not back. I just demand explanation from Amante and @guru why I'm not getting any results with my 8.9 rated pic on photofeeler

Demand? Whaaaatt?????
Just go away for good bro.

 

[Ranger]

I'm not a creative or unique or witty writer bro


I make lots of friends and people love me in real life cause my demeanor and body language is super chill/genuine/etc... I can't come across with that in messages

Another thing I noticed from a past thread, I’ve never talked to you before now, is that you have an amazing capacity that could be used in your favor.

See, guys here can insult you but it really doesn’t register with you. That’s fantastic. Good and bad.
A woman testing you or trying to covertly insult you won’t register either.
So if a woman says something that doesn’t seem right, just ignor it and pretend she didn’t say a thing. Lol
Just go back to the conversation as if it didn’t happen. Do you see where I’m coming from?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I just demand explanation from

You demand? They told you what works for them. Why do you assume it will work for you?

You think dating is like a gumball machine, you put in the minimum effort and out pops a dream girl?

Why do you think you deserve anything, simply because you want it?

How about you spend at least a YEAR approaching people in real life.

Your combination of entitlement and utter terror of having a conversation with an attractive girl is going to keep you single for life.

A better solution would be to spend some time finding a quality therapist than DEMANDING an explanation from the internet why you suck at dating.

 

[Ranger]

Example. You use of the word “demand”. Demand means that guru and Amante are obligated to comply to that like it’s an order. You can’t do that. That’s why you are getting flashback. Now I know that you may be frustrated and that’s the word that came to mind. But it’s definition in the way you used it, is inappropriate.