"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Protests in France
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Well yes, wouldn’t you be p|ssed off if your country was being over run by job taking foreign immigrants that your own country welcomed in ?
lamath
Master Don Juan
Seriously?
That could explain the bad decisions
lamath
Master Don Juan
I agree on this.
They went to the wrong country then. US pays the best…
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
lamath
Master Don Juan
There is also good immigration.
But i feel like lately all we get in Canada anyway(prob similar in the US) is non educated Middle East people that cant even function properly and integrate in our sociability.
They are creating sub-culture and just interact with each other, this is not good., and lots of those are on wealth-fare
Yes, they don’t assimilate with the existing country’s culture and have few personal skills.
Can you spell Freeloaders?
Seriously yes.
Last I heard from a french colleague that he's been trying to get his grandma wife an official role within his administration.
Goes to show who is actually making the decisions.
The French r fvcked.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Thats like a huge red flag, its like our prime minister in Canada an ex drama teacher lmao
There is a link with bad life decision and intelligence
So i guess idiots are leading countries
Feminisation of society produces idiots.
That includes jobless bums who idles away his productive time by taking up state resources such as welfare to survive.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Its like there is no limit to the feminisation, people want to over compensate for the wrong of the past.
However i wonder why there still a **** load of idiots of middle eastern origins they represent the only culture left resisting the feminisation.
Good question. As I understand it the middle easterners are the only culture that think they know a womans place. Behind a man. Some over do it with frmale mutilations and face hiding, but it’s completely different than western societies …
In every industrial revolution people has been saying the same.
The very people that has not adapted.
We r now in the 4th industrial revolution and before long we'll be in the 5th.
Gear up or be left behind.
From that leftest anarchist org the OECD
1. In most OECD countries, the gap between rich and poor is at its highest level since 30 years.
Today, the richest 10 per cent of the population in the OECD area earn 9.5 times the income of the poorest
10 per cent; in the 1980s this ratio stood at 7:1 and has been rising continuously ever since.
And what happened in the 80s what a coincidence governments and the developed world sold off public infrastructure for kickbacks and adopted trickle down economic policies
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
And anyone who was following the DJ game plan is already gearing up so that advice is a bit redundant
It's not an ideology but facts. We are now at the 4th industrial revolution, those that has not adapted is left out as in all previous industrial revolution.
DJ's gearing up ? Take a good look at the threads, does it suggest that many has adapted to the challenges that Tinder or any social media has brought on.
And that's just abt getting a woman. Even with the basics men are struggling.
The world doesn't care if anyone has not adapted, it will continue spinning regardless.
The only redundancy here is not knowing the phases the world is going through and it gets worst when it's ignored.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
https://www.ft.com/content/3d907582-b893-11e7-9bfb-4a9c83ffa852
Macron is right wing, not left. Maybe everyone in France is leftist by US standards, but they consider him a right winger.
(Damn link is subscription only)
France has slashed its contentious wealth tax and introduced a flat rate on capital gains as president Emmanuel Macron used his first budget to unleash business-friendly policies aimed at attracting investors and revitalising the eurozone’s second-largest economy.
The French parliament on Tuesday adopted a package of measures for 2018 that included scrapping the wealth levy on everything except property assets — in effect cutting the tax by 70 per cent. A 30 per cent flat tax rate will also be introduced on capital gains, dividends and interests — a longstanding demand from investors and entrepreneurs.
So the nature of the the prevalent worldview is an individualstic bootstrap Republican type ideology. Which is fine but if you take it to extremes you end up at lord of the flies.
What this thread is pointing enough is that the French actually take collective action to push back against macro forces that threaten their way of life.
You have to wonder with all the technology we can't have citizen referenda with say a 60% threshold
lamath
Master Don Juan
The movement is starting to spread, even here in Canada some small manifestation atm about new immigration policies
I wish more people would get together like this, we are getting too often ****ed by politician
There should be a way to remove or push election when a country leader approval rating drops below a certain %
Would make a lot more accountable, what happens people get really piss off at them for something they do and forget about it 2 year later when its election time.
Thats how they get away with it
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.