Relationships With Zero Arguments & Drama, Is That Normal?

[mrgoodstuff]

Yeah, my relationship is mostly this. We've had maybe 3-4 moderate arguments in a year? They never lasted more than five minutes. Both of us can admit when we're being moody and so we get over it straight away. 99.99% of our relationship has been relaxed and fun. I'm a fairly zen guy so she knows that's what I expect from a relationship but I think she's got a good head on her shoulders too. She seems to be aware that she can be moody.

I think if you actually screen for wholesome traits in women and command respect as the man, these relationships shouldn't be abnormal. It's just we're so used to hooking up with lower quality women with no impulse control and daddy issues, because that's what alpha attracts the most, that a remotely normal relationship seems foreign. Before I found game, I'd had two relationships that were zero drama. I think running the line of being a great guy, not a nice guy nor a jerk is how you get respect and softness. A woman isn't going to relax if you don't make her comfortable.

How does your c0ck hang around her and how are your erections?

In my life a woman who supports my masculinity my balls and c0ck hang fuller. My erections are hard enough to hurt. Seam splitting.

On a woman fightin my masculinity my flaccid never hangs full and when she erects it its hard but restrained.

Our c0cks and balls tell us alot about the energy.

 

[ohrein]

How does your c0ck hang around her and how are your erections?

In my life a woman who supports my masculinity my balls and c0ck hang fuller. My erections are hard enough to hurt. Seam splitting.

On a woman fightin my masculinity my flaccid never hangs full and when she erects it its hard but restrained.

Our c0cks and balls tell us alot about the energy.

Haha, definitely on point there. We have sex almost every night still. And yes, she nurtures that masculine energy, both sexually and in general. Women who see you as masculine energy touch you in a different way than women who just find you attractive. They look at you with raw desire, not just sexual desire. She grew up in a healthy family with a very feminine mother and a happy masculine step father so she has perfect role models for that dynamic. She told me she wants that type of relationship and that she sees those traits in me.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Haha, definitely on point there. We have sex almost every night still. And yes, she nurtures that masculine energy, both sexually and in general. Women who see you as masculine energy touch you in a different way than women who just find you attractive. They look at you with raw desire, not just sexual desire. She grew up in a healthy family with a very feminine mother and a happy masculine step father so she has perfect role models for that dynamic. She told me she wants that type of relationship and that she sees those traits in me.

Spaz said "think with our c0cks". It doesnt lie. Its all about the energy.

 

[ohrein]

Spaz said "think with our c0cks". It doesnt lie. Its all about the energy.

Yeah, there's something to it. I notice the energy shifting. When you're in a powerful state of mind and she submits, the energy shifts. You see it during sex, you see it during arguments or when you're talking about your world, your mission. There's this look they give you, and an energy they have, that just becomes hyper-feminine. She's happiest in this state. When things wax and wane the other direction, that's when sh1t tests start. As I said, it's been exceptionally rare in our relationship so far but I have witnessed the dynamic. Seen the energy move. But I just focus on crafting my world. I treat my life like a garden and nurture all the plants in it. It's a place of a calm, of purpose, of drive. Be the king and your queen will take your side.

I'm not overly metaphysical in general. I don't like this kind of wishy washy thinking. But I have noticed there is something to it. It's evolutionary to be sure, hence the "think with your c0ck".

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yeah, there's something to it. I notice the energy shifting. When you're in a powerful state of mind and she submits, the energy shifts. You see it during sex, you see it during arguments or when you're talking about your world, your mission. There's this look they give you, and an energy they have, that just becomes hyper-feminine. She's happiest in this state. When things wax and wane the other direction, that's when sh1t tests start. As I said, it's been exceptionally rare in our relationship so far but I have witnessed the dynamic. Seen the energy move. But I just focus on crafting my world. I treat my life like a garden and nurture all the plants in it. It's a place of a calm, of purpose, of drive. Be the king and your queen will take your side.

I'm not overly metaphysical in general. I don't like this kind of wishy washy thinking. But I have noticed there is something to it. It's evolutionary to be sure, hence the "think with your c0ck".

Basically she should fvck you regarly and generally try to help you. If shes fighting you too much its a problem which can tear your life up. A good woman for us enhance our masculinity and drive.

 

[sazc]

Congrats and best wishes to you!

 

[TheProspect]

Civil agreements will naturally arise in any healthy relationship. I say healthy relationships because ones that feature a tyrant or doormat (or both) aren’t healthy.

In the context of this thread, I’m taking arguments to be defined synonymous with fighting stubbornly.

If that’s the case, then I wouldn’t say relationships without them are “normal". But they’re achievable, I've done it in just about every relationship after my first one. And drama-free relationships are the only relationships you should get into, although they are not commonplace.

You are ultimately 100% responsible for the women you CHOOSE to date as well as 100% responsible for CHOOSING to get involved in any subsequent drama or arguments with those women. Nobody forces you to date anyone and nobody forces you to engage in trivial bickering with anyone. These are personal choices.

Three things that come to mind, that have helped me immensely to avoid needless fighting in my interpersonal relationships, are:

1) Improving my emotional intelligence
2) Meditation
3) Ability AND willingness to swallow my pride when I'm wrong (or least not blowing the disagreement out of proportion and causing resentment in my partner by insisting she's "wrong" when I'm "right")

I've never participated in an argument I didn't choose to be in.

 

[EyeBRollin]

You're lucky. Enjoy it. You found a good one.

 

[The Duke]

Women like this are rare. I was married to one. When there were issues we were always respectful to each other, patient, and got things sorted out. As a result drama, anger, and resentment never developed. It takes two level headed, rational minded people to make this happen. Plus having good role models growing up.