"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Returning members, need advice on texting and date ideas

Rata Blanca

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Hello there,

Just got out of a LTR and need advice on the texting game.

Is it important or should I dismiss it and go old style? I feel like most people aren't used to getting called for dates nowdays.

Also any ideas to "meet women" that make clear I don't want a LTR. I am thinking switching from coffee shops to bars.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DEEZEDBRAH

Master Don Juan
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Hello there,

Just got out of a LTR and need advice on the texting game.

Is it important or should I dismiss it and go old style? I feel like most people aren't used to getting called for dates nowdays.

Also any ideas to "meet women" that make clear I don't want a LTR. I am thinking switching from coffee shops to bars.
Frame is key. Never date. It's 2018. Women are whoring around if alpha. If Chad. If Tyrone. 2-3 encounters, smash or next her.

If a chick is aloof, flakey, long to respond or anything but feminine and submissive, I next her. No exceptions. As in, number delete. N/c! ***** is dead to me. More importantly, #nextSet!

Said woman can hit me up but her number is lost.


It's championing not chasing but replacement.

Pick inexpensive over trad dating. 99% aren't worthy of a date.

Choose casual versus traditional, dinner, movie, etc.


Pick drinks, coffee, tea. It's short. You can bounce to a beach or park. If deezed, gym workout, drinks or coffee is brilliant.

Last summer, baeeeee on the early (not late) side of twenty pushed venue change. As in, she suggested we go for a walk. Another time, we went to the beach. IOIs are solid. Again, game is about compliance. Stacking thereafter and being low in agreeableness. Being a challenge is key.


As for not seeking LTR, never communicate. Leave it women who bring it up.
 

Rata Blanca

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Seems the game never changes only the players. Thanks for the reminder.
 
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