"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How your body aids you when you get dumped

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh, i can already see the benefits of this breakup, what i'm going through shows me clear as day how conditional a female's love is.
I will never get sloppy on my game again.
That's the correct mentality but you also have understand that while it is important to not slack off on your self improvement, sometimes it doesnt matter. With some women their eyes naturally wonder. They see something that appears the better option and only then realize not all that glitters isnl gold. That's where you see the sudden loss of interest in some women, starting fights, etc. They are also talking to that other dude. So she gives the hot then cold attitude with the man to string him along while she carefully branch swings.

Sometimes it doesnt matter what you do dude. It takes 2 people to make a good relationship work but only takes one to walk out.
 

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That's the correct mentality but you also have understand that while it is important to not slack off on your self improvement, sometimes it doesnt matter. With some women their eyes naturally wonder. They see something that appears the better option and only then realize not all that glitters isnl gold. That's where you see the sudden loss of interest in some women, starting fights, etc. They are also talking to that other dude. So she gives the hot then cold attitude with the man to string him along while she carefully branch swings.

Sometimes it doesnt matter what you do dude. It takes 2 people to make a good relationship work but only takes one to walk out.
Women dont always think the next is "better" but its different and setup different. Many of them are always adding "new friends" whether they have a man or not.
 

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Oh, haha. I'm untraceable, dont worry, my pic cannot be reversed searched, i've tried.
Good stuff.

Given the nuances of the topic at hand, the lack "man's man" times we live in, the #metoo era whereby false accusations of thirty years ago without proof can trash a man, its incumbent that men are aware.

Are you familiar with Julian blanc? Bad ass pickup pua who went a bit far and got kicked off planet earth by green haired obese feminists and SJWs. Imagine being the bloke screenshot or captured at his events before the **** storm?

It's not ideal to be paranoid like chicken little ; sky is falling or tin foil hat. At the same time, just being cognizant of the culture war, doxing, and the potential of lost employment. But I digress.

Good luck mate with your endeavours. Keep me posted.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That's the correct mentality but you also have understand that while it is important to not slack off on your self improvement, sometimes it doesnt matter. With some women their eyes naturally wonder. They see something that appears the better option and only then realize not all that glitters isnl gold. That's where you see the sudden loss of interest in some women, starting fights, etc. They are also talking to that other dude. So she gives the hot then cold attitude with the man to string him along while she carefully branch swings.

Sometimes it doesnt matter what you do dude. It takes 2 people to make a good relationship work but only takes one to walk out.
Agreed but, it's why spinning plates, abundance, and options are GOAT Status. Its why men need to be mgtow with respect to women, marriage, and state. No single mom's or cohabitation. Pickup and TRP aware when getting baeeeees.

Women can walk out but her SMV is ticking away. Fertility too. Her best years don't grow back. Again, new girls are turning 18 everyday.

Act accordingly. Your best asset is options, game, lifestyle, high testosterone go getter, being unapologetic for your path in life, taking up the hero's journey and never deterring from your truth regardless of women. She's not your life nor the linchpin of being. Set the pace. I lead. She follows or next!


Top form SMV 18-23. Feminine as ****kkk and submissive or gtfo #nextSet!
 

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That's the correct mentality but you also have understand that while it is important to not slack off on your self improvement, sometimes it doesnt matter. With some women their eyes naturally wonder. They see something that appears the better option and only then realize not all that glitters isnl gold. That's where you see the sudden loss of interest in some women, starting fights, etc. They are also talking to that other dude. So she gives the hot then cold attitude with the man to string him along while she carefully branch swings.

Sometimes it doesnt matter what you do dude. It takes 2 people to make a good relationship work but only takes one to walk out.
Good stuff.

Given the nuances of the topic at hand, the lack "man's man" times we live in, the #metoo era whereby false accusations of thirty years ago without proof can trash a man, its incumbent that men are aware.

Are you familiar with Julian blanc? Bad ass pickup pua who went a bit far and got kicked off planet earth by green haired obese feminists and SJWs. Imagine being the bloke screenshot or captured at his events before the **** storm?

It's not ideal to be paranoid like chicken little ; sky is falling or tin foil hat. At the same time, just being cognizant of the culture war, doxing, and the potential of lost employment. But I digress.

Good luck mate with your endeavours. Keep me posted.
Oh yeah, i heard his story, he's that swiss PUA guy right?
 

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Oh yeah, i heard his story, he's that swiss PUA guy right?
Ya. One of if not the best I've seen to date. I dunno about now but he's super polarising. Vibe and game on point. I prefer his older stuff but Goat status pickup. Master of role playing. Would pickup groups of girls, troll, merge sets. Repeat and then pull from said harem. Like, perfect set, hot girls, and just pulls the pin on a grenade, sets it off, goes and gets more even hotter girls. He's a maniac at pickup. A true master at least when I saw him.
 
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