"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl invited me to party as accompanying person

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soo thers big party of couples and one girl invited me there

i left the message on unread (but i did still read it, whatsapp power) to not say no


i didnt want to give the vibe that i want secks only or that im boring type who doesnt party




i looked good back then (now am out of shape)

does it mean that she wanted to brag about you to her friends and/or thought you are socially smart enough? (note half people there wer eprobably her friends and i am younger prob about10 years by the average male that attended there)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It means she thought you adequate enough to invite to a party mate, nothing more, and you acted like a weirdo. Why would you not say "yeah sure" and go?

You should not give people advice on here because honestly, some of your threads are beyond belief. Stop over thinking, it's a really creepy mindset.
 

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It means she thought you adequate enough to invite to a party mate, nothing more, and you acted like a weirdo. Why would you not say "yeah sure" and go?

You should not give people advice on here because honestly, some of your threads are beyond belief. Stop over thinking, it's a really creepy mindset.
Why would i go if i didnt want to party with that particular chick?
 

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If you didn't want to go, and didn't go, wtf is this thread for?
 
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If you didn't want to go, and didn't go, wtf is this thread for?
LOOLL you killed it.

She invited you = Social Proof.

She invited you = She didn't want to go alone and for her you have Social Proof

She invited you = She likes you (as a friend or a potential Date)

She invited you = All the people, especially the girls will see you with Social Proof and that a Girl invited you so you must be likable. Thus, they will be easier to game.

You didn't want to go = Tell her you can't make it cause you have other plans. (Other plans = you busy and mysterious... even if it's just staying home).

You want to go but don't want the girl= Accept her invite, have fun there and meet other people and introduce the girl to guys.. Create social proof and socializing that put you in connections.

You go to a party with someone = People will accept you more easily/easier to network
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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soo thers big party of couples and one girl invited me there

i left the message on unread (but i did still read it, whatsapp power) to not say no


i didnt want to give the vibe that i want secks only or that im boring type who doesnt party




i looked good back then (now am out of shape)

does it mean that she wanted to brag about you to her friends and/or thought you are socially smart enough? (note half people there wer eprobably her friends and i am younger prob about10 years by the average male that attended there)
This is classic sosuave. Sosausage is an expert on everyone else's relationships yet goes into panic mode with a simple party invite. Rando495 is another extreme version of the typical incel poster on sosuave. He never posts any personal information of any kind but acts like he knows everything about everyone, in his typical delusional style.

As far as your post, it makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.
 

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This is classic sosuave. Sosausage is an expert on everyone else's relationships yet goes into panic mode with a simple party invite. Rando495 is another extreme version of the typical incel poster on sosuave. He never posts any personal information of any kind but acts like he knows everything about everyone, in his typical delusional style.

As far as your post, it makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.
i didnt panic, stop exagerating
 

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This is classic sosuave. Sosausage is an expert on everyone else's relationships yet goes into panic mode with a simple party invite. Rando495 is another extreme version of the typical incel poster on sosuave. He never posts any personal information of any kind but acts like he knows everything about everyone, in his typical delusional style.

As far as your post, it makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.
why you are so obsessed about us, you can just ignore us you know
 

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why you are so obsessed about us, you can just ignore us you know
So, stop acting like an expert on relationships when you have no idea what you're doing in your own life. Then you won't be criticized for being hypocritical.
 
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