Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Strong Men Vs Weak Men.

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Being Strong and being dominant over a woman doesn’t mean that you should be overly aggressive with her. Women do like being dominated, but not in the way that many guys mistakenly assume.

This is what separates guys that are in LTR
Or dating women and don't get disrespected or treated badly or wonder why there girl is going cold or losing interest/attraction.
If a woman feels like she can dominate you and push you around in most ways, then she won’t be able to feel girly around you and truly surrender to you during sex. Instead, she is going to feel like she is mistakenly allowing a weak man to penetrate her, which is not a turn on at all. (This is why your girlfriend withholds sex from you).

If you want women to feel that intense, raw animalistic attraction for you then she must feel feminine, girly and submissive to you and a women will only feel submissive to a strong, masculine, dominant man. Not a weak, emotional, sensitive guy who she can run all over.

If you are what women refer to as a real man, then you are going to have a lot of mental and emotional strength. No matter what situation you’re faced with, you’re going to remain strong. You’re not going to become insecure or crumble emotionally.

These are qualities that make him a man who naturally leads the way in a relationship and pushes forward in life with strength, allowing her to relax into feeling like a woman. With a strong man, a woman can relax into his masculine direction and spend her time supporting him in whatever way she wants, because she believes that, in the end, he will succeed.

Now, it's ok to be affectionate and romantic with the women in your life but not too much, don't overdue it and you shouldn't do it more than she does. Your a MAN, your suppose to be the masculine one not the feminine one. One thing I noticed in my own life is when women see you as a strong man you can get away with lots of sh!t that a weak man won't be able to get away with.

Trust me, the women in your life will be happy for you to be the more dominant one and will trust you and relax into your masculine direction for life, if you can consistently be a strong man. However, if you are weak, unstable and insecure, she is not going to allow you to dominate her. It will feel wrong to allow a weak man to have any sort of control or influence over her.

Once you master this all this other sh!t about not being too available or being a challenge ECT doesn't even matter, everything will natural fall in place, instead of worrying about lifting to get ripped, a lot of you guys need to worry about being more MANLY and stop being so soft and weak, this is the problem in 97% of your issues with women.

Get this under control and you wont even have to worry about all the other stuff.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Very true, but even a strong man can cave due to external pressures. There is only so much a person can handle on their back.
 

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Very true, but even a strong man can cave due to external pressures. There is only so much a person can handle on their back.
I agree, but a strong person can and will handle anything. He may break down, get depressed, cry, wanna give up ECT but that doesn't mean he's not strong anymore, he's strong because despite all the external pressure he keeps on pushing.

People think once you shed tears or get depressed you lose your strength, when in reality, if you do those things but still get up and continue to push forward despite the distress, pain and trauma then you are in fact strong.
 

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There no real good reason to dominate anyone, and it can be looked at as another form of violence.

Insecure men, seek to control and dominate.
Secure men, however, don't give a flying fukk.
 

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There no real good reason to dominate anyone, and it can be looked at as another form of violence.

Insecure men, seek to control and dominate.
Secure men, however, don't give a flying fukk.
Wrong, weak insecure men don't have the balls and there not MANLY enough to even imagine being in control over there lives let alone women.

Also, dominate men don't seek to dominate anyone, it's just natural for us because it's ingrained in our personalities, were just being ourselves.

There's no in between, if your not dominate your submissive, AKA weak
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There no real good reason to dominate anyone
Maybe rephrase it as "being in charge" or "taking the lead", which is a traditionally male quality and gives women the sense of protection so many still appreciate.
 

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Wrong, weak insecure men don't have the balls and there not MANLY enough to even imagine being in control over there lives let alone women.

Also, dominate men don't seek to dominate anyone, it's just natural for us because it's ingrained in our personalities, were just being ourselves.

There's no in between, if your not dominate your submissive, AKA weak
I think the word you are looking for is 'dominant'. Huge difference.
 

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There's no in between, if your not dominate your submissive, AKA weak
Well guess what, you just stated the two opposite ends of the personal spectrum and expect to catagorizre everyone by those catagory positions. There is some middle ground in between dude…
 

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Well guess what, you just stated the two opposite ends of the personal spectrum and expect everyone to fall into those catagories. There is some middle ground in between dude…
Well, if you can find a middle ground then more power to you bruh.
But there's no such thing as "kinda strong" either you are or you work to get there.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well make me a believer, if your not a dominant man what do you consider yourself?
What do you consider yourself by putting men in only two catagories that you understand?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It was a question to make you start thinking about entering a real world reality.
Yeah, back to my original question, if your not a dominant man then what are you? It's a legit question, nobody is going to judge you lol
 

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Yeah, back to my original question, if your not a dominant man then what are you? It's a legit question, nobody is going to judge you lol
Damn, I must be a wimp, it’s probably why you keep responding to my posts dude.
 

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Damn, I must be a wimp, it’s probably why you keep responding to my posts dude.
My point exactly, you see how you started off like you had a good argument? But then you couldn't even back up your argument? You don't know what you are lol come back when you ready to have real discussion.
 

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My point exactly, you see how you started off like you had a good argument? But then you couldn't even back up your argument? You don't know what you are lol come back when you ready to have real discussion.
Stated my opinion posts ago, when do you want to hear that there are men across the middle spectrum between dominant and passive. Study up on humanity before posting BS online.
 

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What I've noticed of todays man is they are becoming more and more feminized, a man has to be strong, but not controlling.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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