Something my 30-something year old virgin friend did

[MatureDJ]

Yes, this guy basically had never gone out on a date except for a school dance or two that someone had set him up. He was totally clueless in how to talk to women, or anything about escalation, kino, etc..; him reading SoSuave would be like a kindergartener reading a book on quantum physics. He was definitely not a Chad, LOL, but not a sperge either.

So when he decided that he had better do something about his situation, he read an article somewhere (I'm thinking it was Playboy, LOL) that said to simply ask everyone he knew as an acquaintance if there was woman that the acquaintance could set him up with. When he told me this, of course, I was expecting him to have to sift through a cornucopia of BBW & single mommies, but amazingly there weren't any (although obviously nothing of any high SMV). As it turned out, the setup that he ended up marrying was at a wedding that they were both going to.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Makes sense, dude gets laid once, and then puts the pvssy on lock down with a ring. I'm sure he was thinking he had to do that, or he would never get laid again.

 

[Mike32ct]

I’ll admit, I was always skeptical of that advice too. But I’m genuinely glad it worked out so well for him.

Other fun incel term...

Wizard = 30+ yo virgin guy

Further congrats to him on reaching wizard status before meeting his wife.

All joking aside, for some guys, there’s nothing really wrong with them. But no family or friends taught him how this dating thing works. So time slips by, and the guy genuinely doesn’t know HOW to get a gf. I think parents are partly to blame for this incel stuff, but that’s another debate for another day.

 

[Alvafe]

I think that wizard thing was a japanese term for old guys who was virgins, something about 35 yo I think, I read that in a manga somewhere who made fun on several terms used on mangas and hentais I think

 

[ohrein]

All joking aside, for some guys, there’s nothing really wrong with them. But no family or friends taught him how this dating thing works. So time slips by, and the guy genuinely doesn’t know HOW to get a gf. I think parents are partly to blame for this incel stuff, but that’s another debate for another day.

I don't understand how these forums aren't a fvcking hive of guys. I knew in my third relationship at twenty two that there was something wrong with my perception and understanding of dating women. It drove me almost literally insane until past the purple pill stage in my mid twenties. I know so many guys who complain about women but then call me sexist when I try to help them. Even saying women are more emotional than men is grounds for a "woah dude you can't say that" these days. Go read about transgendered people who are on hormone replacement therapy and tell me those stereotypes don't exist for a reason. A male to female trans person on estrogen becomes a weeping mess, they describe the difference in detail. But no, they refuse. Rollo talks about rejecting the red pill but this isn't even that. It's just basic observation. I think fem-centrism is just so much the cultural norm that guys won't even challenge it at all. I guess it has to be ego investment. I dunno.

I'm the type of person who likes to solve problems so it just makes sense to me to learn. Have problem + Learn about problem = Ability to solve problem. Have problems with women and dating + learn as much about women and dating = ability to date women and remain sane.

 

[sosousage]

I’ll admit, I was always skeptical of that advice too. But I’m genuinely glad it worked out so well for him.

Other fun incel term...

Wizard = 30+ yo virgin guy

Further congrats to him on reaching wizard status before meeting his wife.

All joking aside, for some guys, there’s nothing really wrong with them. But no family or friends taught him how this dating thing works. So time slips by, and the guy genuinely doesn’t know HOW to get a gf. I think parents are partly to blame for this incel stuff, but that’s another debate for another day.

haha incel forums are hot man. its one of weirdestthings u will find online (funny there are no women incel forums)

 

[zekko]

he read an article somewhere (I'm thinking it was Playboy, LOL) that said to simply ask everyone he knew as an acquaintance if there was woman that the acquaintance could set him up with.

This is generally not a good idea because it can make you look weak and undesirable - a man with no options. Better to generate your own dates, if you can. However, in this case, obviously conventional methods weren't working for him, so good for him. Let's just hope he doesn't get cleaned out in a divorce and end up regretting his good fortune.

 

[MatureDJ]

This is generally not a good idea because it can make you look weak and undesirable - a man with no options. Better to generate your own dates, if you can. However, in this case, obviously conventional methods weren't working for him, so good for him. Let's just hope he doesn't get cleaned out in a divorce and end up regretting his good fortune.

He got married quite a while ago, and they're still together, with teenagers. Believe it or not, she went back to school to get a better job.

 

[zekko]

He got married quite a while ago, and they're still together, with teenagers. Believe it or not, she went back to school to get a better job.

Well, good for them. Of course there is always time for things to fall apart, but I hope it works out. I notice sometimes these somewhat naive people have more successful relationships than the more experienced - sort of like Desdinova's High Count Theory.

I've known many married women who went back to school to get better jobs,, so that doesn't surprise me. I met quite a few in college, and a good percentage of them would say they planned on leaving their husband once they graduated and started making better money. I'm not sure how many of them actually followed through on that though.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Well, good for them. Of course there is always time for things to fall apart, but I hope it works out. I notice sometimes these somewhat naive people have more successful relationships than the more experienced - sort of like Desdinova's High Count Theory.

I've known many married women who went back to school to get better jobs,, so that doesn't surprise me. I met quite a few in college, and a good percentage of them would say they planned on leaving their husband once they graduated and started making better money. I'm not sure how many of them actually followed through on that though.

Aren't you one of the forum members with a "good" long term relationship? Why in the hail are women always wanting to do away with their men, like theyre a bunch of disposable props?

 

[zekko]

Aren't you one of the forum members with a "good" long term relationship? Why in the hail are women always wanting to do away with their men, like theyre a bunch of disposable props?

Yes, I'm one of those.

There are a lot of reasons why women are more inclined to end marriages than men. I think the main reason is that they have unrealistic, fantasy type expectations out of their marriage, and when they find themselves confronted with living real life, they decide they are not happy.

Other reasons:
1) The man turns out to be a d!ck, a cheater, a drunk, or whatever
2) Men tend to take their vows and honor more seriously than women do
3) Women tend to live more by their emotions - if they hit a bad patch in their marriage, they may go with it
4) Once the "love hormones" run out, they get bored (the "seven year itch")
I'm sure there are others.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Its ****ty advice but, when incel status, he has zero to lose.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

He got married quite a while ago, and they're still together, with teenagers. Believe it or not, she went back to school to get a better job.

Huge red flag.

Once her earnings spike, that same tingles she feels for more currency will occur as her earnings reach his or surpass his in this girl power society. She'll get the tingles for a high earning highly disagreeable alpha male.

This won't end well.