mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
My boy found his girl cheating who he was supporting. His vision went red and when he was conscious and aware he realized he beat both of them badly.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Not sure what I'd do. Never caught a woman cheating on me. You know what they say, if it floats, flies or fvcks, you're going to eventually have some problems. Chris Brown said it best.
mrgoodstuff
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Yeah you don't know unless you've experienced it. My boy saw red and when he was aware he'd crushed his cheating woman and the guy. It was a reaction.
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I could only imagine. Everything is about self-control. I recall many of times when ex-girlfriends and my ex-wife tried to get me off center. I am happy to report they were never successful. I guess I truly didn't give a fvck. Not sure. I have problems with people trying to pull power moves with me. Never understood why people do that.
mrgoodstuff
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I've always walked away. I have a zero tolerance policy for bullsh!t. Life has more important things to worry about than a woman not being happy. If she wants to hang with me and enjoy the ride of life, cool. If not, there's the door. I really don't care anymore. One of my exs I ran into and she even apologized for her crap. I said, it's cool. No worries and I walked away. I really just don't give a fvck anymore. I am happiest in life with as little stress as possible. Women = stress. I do find I also lose interest after sex with them. Must be my internal wiring or something. Not sure.