You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I am a nice person if people are nice to me.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You must be rich if you can afford to run a Lambo! What's the mpg on that?
So how is paying for prostitutes "game"?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
the key in gaming prostitutes is to get the lowest price possible
I'm not in the spotlight making retarded threads. You are. Therefore you have made yourself a target.
That doesn't count because it's a crutch-arrangement. The girls you are with probably have no standards. They would sleep with your grandfather.RichardtheFrog said:
....and what do you actually know about me? I know about you thought. You wear your heart on your sleeve and share the world that you like seeing escorts and dumpster diving to third-world countries. You have a father that help set-you up and yet you managed to end up in jail. Guess you almost chocked on your silver spoon.RichardtheFrog said:
You can't game a prostitute unless she's agreeing to see you for free because she actually likes you and outside the context of a business transaction or you manage to see her and you are on her client type exclusion list. (i.e. I would consider any trickery employed a type of game, at least you have that satisfaction that you got something on your terms, but not hers). Shooting fish in the barrel is never game esp. based on the girl's terms. My tiff with RichardtheFrog is partially that if he's shooting fish in the barrel and engaging in no-risk, while hiding away from having to prove himself as a man that is worthy of quality pvssy for free from a hb white American girl in America, because he's a man. Lets face it, there are women in America that make more money than he does, and plenty of other guys. Doesn't do anything for his SMV or he wouldn't be going there all the time and posting about it.
It's not. How is acting like an emasculated, little hater "game"?
This is the what bullies say to justify their bullying.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm not a faggot such as you are so I would have no interest in applying any "game" here. You and RichardtheFrog sound perfect for each other.
I get the feeling that you and sosousage are the same person.
Oh, she's mad. CTFU! You triggered homegirl?
Because, this board is chock full of undercover incel/black pillers. Nice observation Newton. In your keen observation, have you observed richard instigate any hostility?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
so if i discuss hypergamy then im incel?
No, but you've said as much yourself in previous threads.
Average about 11
And she was hot, too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
