"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

red pilling just to realize you will get sex for quality, but not love

sosousage

Banned
Joined
Aug 22, 2017
Messages
3,547
Reaction score
1,219
Age
36
do you guys notice that women can get love, but men cant?


female love == his quality, his money, his look, his status, possibility to brag about him on instagram or to her friends, his extraordinary character.

male love == none of this bs above. as long as female is not ugly or mental and dont have a personality of door knob then she will be fine

ok some guys can be extra demanding regarding women's look, but thats like 1% of men. for the rest, normal looking girl is fine.


for most women now you need all the qualities i have mentioned above to be in relationship with her or to have sex. but still no matter how many years u spend together she will replace u for better person if theres such


soo basically average woman can get love from most men assuming they met her requirements of course, but men cant

men can only chase things like money or look, status, his physique, etc and even then they wont get love because they will know that woman will just stay with him or have sex with him because of all these external shallow qualities

its like once u red pill u have no hope for love
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

ChillDude01

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2018
Messages
16
Reaction score
6
Age
32
Yeah ot sucks thats why i turned down so many girls ... and as much as it hurts to say this iam playing others .... i have never been cheated on and my ex was pretty loyal ... but i have been the guy girls wanna cheat with , for a long time i didnt want to do it but these days iam more open to the idea .... gotta have standards no way around it look for what suits u best .
 

sosousage

Banned
Joined
Aug 22, 2017
Messages
3,547
Reaction score
1,219
Age
36
Men have an instinct to protect and sacrifice, therefore more easily have sacrificial true love. Female instinct is to seek protection and value, those are conditional. No such thing as a woman getting dumped for showing basic human weakness ;-)
and no such thing as males manipulating females
 

MrJack

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 1, 2017
Messages
496
Reaction score
226
Age
33
do you guys notice that women can get love, but men cant?


female love == his quality, his money, his look, his status, possibility to brag about him on instagram or to her friends, his extraordinary character.

male love == none of this bs above. as long as female is not ugly or mental and dont have a personality of door knob then she will be fine

ok some guys can be extra demanding regarding women's look, but thats like 1% of men. for the rest, normal looking girl is fine.


for most women now you need all the qualities i have mentioned above to be in relationship with her or to have sex. but still no matter how many years u spend together she will replace u for better person if theres such


soo basically average woman can get love from most men assuming they met her requirements of course, but men cant

men can only chase things like money or look, status, his physique, etc and even then they wont get love because they will know that woman will just stay with him or have sex with him because of all these external shallow qualities

its like once u red pill u have no hope for love
Yea it’s a sad truth. The only point in time where I think this sometimes doesn’t apply is the good ole high school days. I had “high status” in high school but wasn’t top tier. Just good looks and varsity baseball (not much money, skinny as fvck, wasn’t too much for my gf to brag about me to others)

I had a “high school sweetheart gf” for 3-4 years who would never leave me because she loved me so much. I think it was because my blue-pillness gave her the idea I’d make an amazing husband/father one day or something which she had told me before.

Even after I made the mistake of leaving my phone behind with her and the girls while myself and the boys went to ride the golf cart around, and she saw some explicit text messages between another girl and I, she still didn’t leave me. (The days before iPhones with passcodes).

Then even after she found out from a friend that I fvcked another girl from her school (we went to different schools), she STILL didn’t leave me even though she was obviously very very upset. She may have got revenge after that without me knowing but our relationship was so broken it didn’t even matter at that point.

It wasn’t until I fully cut things off that she had to accept the fact and let me go.

But yea once we all grow up, both men and women (mostly women) start to realize these true dynamics.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 24, 2017
Messages
6,068
Reaction score
4,848
Age
36
Its viewing the world as it is. not how you wish it to be.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

greatsnake

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2017
Messages
648
Reaction score
313
Age
37
It's how the world works and it's in our interest to see it as that.
 
Top